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The Truth about Life

When I was younger and heard, “money isn’t everything” I’d think…that person must be poor.

And TBH in most cases I still find this true. I never liked that people who didn’t seem to have “the thing” would speak on “it isn’t everything.” It’s hard to speak on something you haven’t seen both sides of the aisle.

No judgement, I just think it’s fact.

- can’t say money doesn’t matter if you have none.

- can’t say women don’t matter when you can’t get any.

- can’t say things don’t matter when you can’t afford them.

- can’t say fitness doesn’t matter without a six pack.

Where am I going with this?

- The day I hit a million in a month, I realized you can never have enough money, you’ll always want more.

- The day I had money to go with my physique I realized I would never get enough women (was easy), I’d always want more.

- The day I got a six pack I realized I’d never be shredded enough, I’d always want more.

- 6 months after I got a Lambo svj I realized I’d never be satisfied with stuff, I’d always need more (got boring).

And for years I even tried to seperate this stuff. I’d be disciplined in 3/4 areas and I’d say, “if I want it than why can’t I have it if I’m honest? What’s the issue?”

Here’s the deal.

- if you understand you’ll always want more money than just don’t make that the sole driver. Enjoy who you become as you pursue it, and make that the goal.

- If you know you’ll never have enough women, then choose not to pursue it. On paper going for em all sounds nice, until you realize the blowback will come sooner or later. At best you’ll get toleration which leads to resentment or always starting over. It’s like wanting a six pack and eating a whole pizza daily, sounds nice but not how it works.

- if you know you’ll never be jacked enough, make who you become the goal…not how shredded you are.

- if things will always get old, enjoy the beauty but realize it’ll never be enough. Use it as a way to celebrate your victories.

I think what I’ve come to realize is that society needs more men WHO CAN HAVE IT ALL AND GET IT ALL anytime they want (or get more), but choose not to.

I think there’s a lot of guys talking the talk, but not walking the walk. Saying no when it isn’t an option means NOTHING. And that’s not bad, maybe they have different battles.

TBH as a kid I got bullied and I think that drove me to prove myself to an extreme level. Then I felt I deserved whatever I wanted when I wanted it because “I’ve earned it.”

I just did all this work and now you want me not to enjoy it!?!? Wtf!! (I’d think).

I think the most powerful man on earth is rich, jacked, loyal, and disciplined. Everyone knows he could get more or have more, but he doesn’t play the game. And he doesn’t play because he knows you can’t win that way.

This doesn’t mean money is evil or stuff or anything like that. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t push, that’s not what I’m saying. It just means you decide the goal is personal development versus what you receive/get.

Anyways this is where I’m gonna plant my flag and I hope I can be a beacon for guys to show that even though you can have it all, you shouldn’t necessarily do that.

And my hope is by looking at my life, how I look, and what I’ve accomplished, you can trust my words versus someone just talking shit who has none of the things (or optimally) discussed above.

And I know most people “find god” and say that’s how they get here. I’m not against god, but to be clear I came to this conclusion through direct experience.

I made $$

I got jacked

I played the field and hurt people (and I still want to because I’m a man lol, but realized it leads nowhere. BTW it’s okay to wanna do soemthing but not do it).

I bought all the stuff

If you are like me you won’t believe me without doing it yourself, but bookmark this because when you arrive at that conclusion you’ll have 2 choices.

1. Always desire more but never be satisfied. Get what you want by all means necessary because you can and desire it (regardless of who gets hurt). Be in a cycle until death.

2. Use these rules as a way to personal

Develop and become the MF man. The guy everybody knows can have or get it all, but chooses a higher path.

And to wrap I’m by no means saying I know everything or that this is even right, but this is my journal and I felt I had no one who “had it all” to ask this stuff to growing up.

Hope it helps one of you ❤️✊🏻

P.S. if you’re a dude struggling happy to discuss via lender just be patient in a super busy guy.

I’ll discuss more on a pod soon 🔜

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