Let's start a new series. Each one, see if you recognize yourself. 👇
As a child:
- Decisions were made for you
- You weren't allowed to fail
- Adults stepped in and took over
- Your abilities were questioned or minimized
As an adult, it can show up as:
- A strong need for independence
- Wanting people to acknowledge your accomplishments
- Seeking external validation and approval
- Difficulty trusting your own abilities
- Proving yourself over and over again
- Struggling to ask for help — because you want to show you can do it on your own
Healing question:Can I trust myself without needing everyone else to validate my worth?
Affirmation:I trust my abilities. I honor my accomplishments. My worth does not depend on external validation.
💬 Drop a 🙋♀️ in the comments if this is you — and tell me which line hit hardest.