Apparently I was supposed to just:
let go of the past,
set better boundaries,
know my worth
and everything would magically work itself out.
Meanwhile my system was like:
Cool. Love that plan.But we’re still holding tension in the shoulders,overcommitting by Tuesday,and undercharging by Friday!
So instead,
I stopped trying to fix everything at the mindset leveland started paying attention to what my system could actually handle.
Took me a while to figure that one out.
Turns out: When you stop abandoning yourself in small ways,
A lot of things do start to shift.
Not magically.
Just a little less chaos,a little more clarity,and a lot more of that
Oh, that makes sense.
It turns out, when you start with calm,clarity comes back,capacity builds, and creative flow isn’t so hard to find.