Stop trying to beat everyone else.
That game is exhausting ๐
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." โ Ralph Waldo Emerson
What no one taught us:
๐ You donโt win by being better.
๐ You win by being different.
"You were born an original. Don't die a copy." โ John Mason
"An original is always worth more than a copy." โ Suzy Kassem
The internet doesnโt reward polished clones.
It rewards authentic personality, unique perspective, and real humanness.
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." โ Oscar Wilde
That thing you think is โweirdโ about you?
Yeahโฆ thatโs your real advantage โจ
Being a 'real human' will be your advantage in an AI-Powered Era.
Popular creators like Mr. Beast, Lilly Singh, and Gary Vee
created their own unique brands by being true to who they are,
and comfortable in their own skin.
Ever listen to Gary Vee?
He cusses like itโs his mother tongue. ๐
. . . and letโs not judge, as heโs very effective in delivering his message
. . . and quite a successful guy!!
Some might say, "I'm not comfortable in my own skin."
I get it . . . either you practice until you're comfortable or copy someone you admire and as you get comfortable, your real authentic self will emerge.
Others may also say, "I'm more comfortable being a professional."
I totally get you . . . I have many people in my circle that only show their 'professional' side to the world and their 'fun' side to a select few.
If this style works for you, wear it!!
What works for those building their personal brand:
โข Be yourself (not the โprofessionalโ version which is soOoo '90s)
โข Talk about what you care about, and follow your curiosity
โข Build skills as you go, pivot as you see fit
โข Show up daily, consistency wins even when you feel awkward
โข Show your vulnerable side, and people will trust you (use this for good)
People donโt connect with perfection.
They connect with real.
"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of someone else." โ Judy Garland
Try this:
1๏ธโฃ Get clear on who you help
2๏ธโฃ Share your perspective, not just tips
3๏ธโฃ Turn your uniqueness into value
Youโre already one of one.
Own it ๐ฏ
Be so YOU that youโll never be twinning!
"Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You." โ Dr. Seuss
If you think authenticity is overrated, share your thoughts