It’s a long but good one 😊👇🏼

** Firstly, we have 100 members in our free community that we just created January 1st ((: **

Hey everyone, I just wanted to share something I felt really called to share…

My husband and I joined VIP Academy in mid-January, and we went all in—we knew this was exactly what we needed.

Of course, I still had doubts and fears, but I’ve been into mindset work, subconscious reprogramming, and manifestation for years.

I’m no stranger to this stuff—I even studied it in school for my Bachelor’s in Holistic Health Sciences.

But despite everything I knew, I kept seeing the same patterns, the same limiting thoughts, the same struggles—especially in my business.

So recently, I decided to fully commit.

I used Ted’s Life Vision Statement template and I listen to it at least twice a day—sometimes 10 times if I’m cleaning or driving.

I made a Mind Movie and watch it daily. I have a vision board on my wall and in my planner, so I’m constantly reinforcing the reality I’m stepping into.

But the biggest shift?

I’ve become HYPER-aware of my thoughts and emotions—not just in the morning, not just “when I remember,” but all day, every day.

I realized discipline isn’t just about checking off tasks—it’s about being disciplined in how I think, feel, and REACT to situations.

And here’s how I know it’s working.

Last Friday, I had a discovery call with what I thought was my dream client—a mom planning a home birth who had done all the physical prep but needed support with the mental preparation for birth.

That’s literally my thing.

This is exactly what I do, and I knew I could help her.

The call went great. She was excited. We scheduled a strategy call for Tuesday at 9 AM. I was hyped. I texted Benny, “I got my first strategy call booked on my second discovery call!!”

Monday morning, I went to DM her before our call… and her messages were gone. Looked up her account—completely disappeared. Checked again. Blocked.

She ghosted me in the worst way possible—blocked me on Instagram and never showed up to our call. No explanation.

Just… gone.

Old me? I would have gone to the bathroom at work, and cried. I would have texted my husband probably cussing her out out of frustration. I would have let that ruin my whole day, my whole week.

But not this time.

For a split second, those old fears popped up: Did I do something wrong? Is this a sign? Am I manifesting failure?

But I nipped that shit in the bud FAST.

I reminded myself: This is part of the process. People flake. It happens. This does NOT define me.

And guess what? I had another discovery call at 11 AM.

This next discovery call? A completely different energy.

This client was referred to me by someone. She was 20 weeks pregnant—perfect timing. She already knew she wanted to work with me and even said, “Let’s book my next call for Feb 17th so I know I have the funds to pay you right away.”

WHAT.

At the end of the call, she literally said, “I feel like we’re the perfect fit for each other.”

And in that moment, it all clicked: Some doors have to close for others to open.

I’m not saying my 3D reality is exactly where I want it to be yet. No, there’s not a G-Wagon in my driveway yet.

But I see progress. I feel different.

And that’s everything.

A few weeks ago, I would have let that no-show destroy my day. Instead, I saw it for what it was—a redirection, not a rejection.

I’m proud of myself. And if you’re doing this work—if you’re staying hyper-aware of your thoughts, emotions, and reactions—even when it’s hard…

Be proud of yourself too.

Because this shit WORKS.

Keep going. Don’t let setbacks define you.

You’re creating something bigger than one lost sale, one bad day, or one flake.