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🎯 Welcome to Social Anxiety Sucks This post will give you everything you need to know to get started, stay engaged, and get the most out of this group. Please read carefully. ✅ What This Community Is About - A safe, supportive space to build confidence and challenge our fears - Access to strategies, coaching insights, and tools you can use in real life - Accountability, encouragement, and progress alongside others who get it 📌 Community Guidelines To keep this space powerful and safe, everyone agrees to: - Respect: No judgment, bullying, or unsolicited advice - Confidentiality: What’s shared here stays here - Action-Oriented: We focus on progress, not perfection - Zero Tolerance: Spam, self-promotion, or negativity will result in removal ⚠️ Important Disclaimer: Coaching ≠ Therapy This community is built around coaching, education, and peer support. While powerful, it is not therapy and should never be used as a replacement for professional mental health treatment. - Coaching focuses on building skills, confidence, and forward momentum. - Therapy addresses clinical mental health issues, past trauma, or conditions that require licensed care. - If you are experiencing severe anxiety, depression, or mental health struggles that interfere with daily life, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional. Your mental health matters, and if at any point you feel you need therapy, we encourage you to prioritize that alongside (or instead of) coaching. 🔑 Pro Tips For Success - Give things a try even if they feel uncomfortable at first - Celebrate your wins (big or small) — momentum inspires others - Ask for help when you need it — that’s what we’re here for 🙌 Final Word This community is for you to push yourself an help hold you and each other accountable. That being said, social anxiety can make it difficult to participate even if you are in a judgment free zone. While participation is encourage, you will never be expected to participate, and I ask that we do not pressure others if they are not ready.
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NEW Videos added to the Classroom
Hey Everyone, just a quick update here, 2 new videos have been added to the Classroom under "Practical Tips" called Turn Your Fear into Motivation and The Practical Way To Overcome Self Consciousness. Check them out now!
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New Videos in Classroom
Hey Everyone, 2 new videos have been added to the classroom; one under Practical Tips called "What to Do if Your Brain Freezes," and one under Mindset Shifts (Part 2) called " Playing it Safe is Dangerous." Give them a listen and share with the group if you have any questions or comments.
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Q&A
Hey everyone, just a reminder I will be hosting a Q&A this Thursday, September 11 at 2pm EST. Feel free to join and ask any question you have about building confidence and dealing with social anxiety. Hope to see you there!
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After the embarrassing moment
What may be more important than the social interaction itself, is how we talk to ourselves after the interaction. It’s very common that as we begin to challenge ourselves, social interactions may not always go as we hope. This is to be expected. Your natural inclination will be to use this “bad experience,” as proof of your social inadequacy. In reality, the attempt to go out of your comfort zone is a win in and of itself. Give yourself credit for pushing yourself and be careful not to fall back to old patterns of criticism (calling self a loser, idiot, etc). Keep in mind that due to the social anxiety and low self esteem, our view of reality is distorted and biased. Did the interaction actually go as poorly as you thought, or is that just your negativity clouding it? Stick to facts about the interaction rather than feelings or interpretations, as these are completely subjective. Lastly, even if the interaction objectively went poorly, that’s cool too. Our job is not to be perfect in social situations. Life is full of embarrassing moments. It’s time to give ourselves the permission and grace to embrace and accept our flaws and mistakes. Learn to laugh with ourself, not at ourself.
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This is a community for for people with social anxiety who are looking for practical advice to build confidence and become the person they want to be.
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