Hey guys. I have this thing were im always the one that gets left. I am quick to get attached but Iam slow to fall in love and maybe girls dont like that.
How do people force themselves to “stop feeling”? I feel like the more time i spend with someone the more i like them but for my partners is always the opposite. This girl im broken up by now told me
she loved me so much she had to force herself to not need me anymore because when we were together i had depression for a while and she got hurt by negligence on my part.
But still, i feel like if you love someone feelings dont go away like that. at least I cant. Is there something wrong with me? Is it lack of maturity? Or is it a case of “if 2 people are dating to marry then the first one to make a mistake is fucked”scenario? I feel like everytime i make a mistake i just cant recover from it.