The secret is that it might feel like that every time โฆand thatโs a good thing! It means that that feeling actually means *nothing* Especially when youโre getting ready to leave for your FIRST solo trip, those nerves seriously feel like a real gut feeling that it would be naive to ignoreโฆ it can feel like a guarantee that something horrible is going to go wrong & that your worst-case-scenario fears were right. Especially if safety is a big fear, it can feel like โthis is literally like the start of every kidnapping movie where the girl ignores everyone who told her not to go aloneโฆโ The first time, you canโt tell the difference between THAT and the normal but lowkey sickening butterflies that come up for a lot of women - even if theyโve done it plenty of times before! ๐ Youโll be able to *actually* trust your gut more when you get there to sus out day-to-day stuff, but thereโs a good chance you should NOT trust your pre-trip nerves! They donโt want you to have fun & get out of your comfort zone๐คทโโ๏ธ I was beyond dramatic before I left for my first solo trip & was saying my goodbyes to people like I wasnโt sure if I would make it back alive LMAO but the anxiety before a solo trip can feel THAT real! I still get this feeling (just not quite as intense) almost every time! Nerves are still there for even the most experienced solo travelers - you just get more comfortable & familiar with it over time! Then, you can recognize it for what it is instead of accepting it as the confirmation of all of your worst fears! This is your sign that your anxiety about solo travel isnโt a red flag! Itโs just well-intentioned butterflies that donโt understand that youโre about to have an exciting new experience ๐คทโโ๏ธ TIP: 1 thing that gives me peace of mind is being prepared w/ international data! My ppl can track my location & Iโm never stuck without the ability to look up directions, translations, etc! I use @simcornertravel & you can use code SOLOSUMMER for a discount if ya need it!