The parent who stays suffer the most and it's usually the woman. My marriage is under siege because of my son. Every job he gets they start noticing his autism sooner or later. However, he doesn't want to go for disability. He's proud and says nothing is wrong with him. My marriage is quickly deteriorating. He constantly gets depressed and cause a disruption in the house. Once again I have to be the bad cop. It's not a good thing when parents don't work together especially if the child has autism.