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Start Here. Welcome to The PACT!
Welcome to The PACT If you want to make friends in person, or love in real life — you’re in the right place. Drop a comment so we know you’re here! Here, we learn how to: ✅ Communicate who we really are (through a Personal Brand Statement) ✅ Set healthy boundaries without guilt or awkwardness ✅ Turn small talk into genuine connection STEP 1: Take the "Discover Your Communication Style" Quiz - Go to the Classroom tab. - Select "Start Here" - take the "Discover Your Communication Style" Quiz - Takes 3 minutes or less STEP 2: Book a call (first call is FREE) No pressure. No Sales Pitches. Just personalized guidance. STEP 3: Introduce Yourself with Your Communication Style 👋 (Bonus points if you include your Public Brand Statement) Welcome to your new community of people like you. – Rico
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Gratitude is a choice
Your can either 1. Focus of what’s good and the source of it. 2. Focus on problems and why you hate them. One attracts positive energy and the people you want. The other attracts negative energy and people who like to complain. Which one will you choose today?
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5 ways to move past small talk faster:
01 — Skip "What do you do?" Try: "What's been on your mind lately?" 02 — Share first. Go slightly deeper than expected. They'll often match your level. 03 — Follow the energy, not the topic. When their eyes light up—ask more about THAT. 04 — Use "What" and "How" instead of Yes/No questions. 05 — Name the elephant. "I'm not great at small talk—can we skip to the good stuff?" The truth: Small talk isn't the enemy. Staying there is. Real connection is on the other side. These tips get you there faster. Save this for your next conversation.
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Are you evaluating or co-creating?
Society taught you to treat people like products. "What do they bring to the table?" "Red flag or green flag?" "Know your worth." Sound familiar? Here's the trap: When you evaluate people, you know they're evaluating you too. So you perform. Curate. Hide. Try to pass their secret test. And even when you're "chosen"—they chose the performance. Not you. That's why you can feel lonely IN a relationship. The alternative? Co-creation. Stop asking "Am I good enough?" Start asking "What can we create together?"
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People hate small talk?
If you've ever felt connecting with others is harder than it should be Watch this 11:00min video In it you'll discover: - 2 reasons people hate small talk - The #1 mistake people do that makes connection a chore (and how to avoid it) - The 3 C's to make connection a pleasurable experience for you and them. Enjoy! P.S. - I'm am working on a curriculum that helps people who feel like connecting with people is harder than is should be. Connection is a fundamental human need. But many feel more disconnected now than ever. The goal is to help people connect more so we thrive at home and work. This course will be free for you. And if you join live, you'll have a chance to get your specific questions answered. Course starts in March. I'll keep you posted.
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