We’re updating the look of The Delusional Recovery Group, and instead of deciding alone, i want you to help choose. this icon will represent the whole community - comments, posts, inside jokes, everything. so it should feel recognizable, safe, and very us. here are the two options we’re deciding between: 🚩 red flag – awareness – pattern recognition – “oh… i see it now” energy 💔 cracked heart – healing after heartbreak – loving deeply, learning slowly – not broken, just aware there’s no wrong answer. both fit the group, just in different ways. vote in the poll below 👇 and if you want, comment why you picked what you picked (one sentence is perfect). this is your space. 🖤

Let’s play something every woman dealing with an avoidant instantly can relate to! Finish ONE of these sentences in the comments: 1. “His avoidant superpower is…”(make it funny or painfully accurate) 2. “The avoidant ‘plot twist’ I saw coming from a mile away was…” 3. “The moment I knew he was spiraling was when he…” Keep it light, keep it real, keep it to one line. I’ll jump into the comments and decode what each one actually reveals about his attachment style - and about yours.

RULES: 👉 Only ONE word per comment 👉 No back-to-back comments 👉 Make it chaotic, dramatic, or petty 👉 I’ll stitch the best thread into a full story later 😂🔥 FIRST WORD: “Suddenly…” Let the madness begin 👇😭

Alright crew - it’s time for a little creative chaos 😈 We’re playing “I Wish…” Here’s how it works: 1️⃣ Someone comments a wish. Example: “I wish I could read minds.” 2️⃣ The next person replies with: “Granted… but now you can’t turn it off and everyone’s thoughts are about you 💀.” Then you drop your own wish, and the next person ruins yours. Keep it funny, sarcastic, and darkly clever - you know the vibe 😌🚩 I’ll start 👇 I wish I could fly. Your turn 😭

Welcome to EMOTIONAL JEOPARDY - the only game show where the points don’t matter because the attachment wounds already humbled us 😭✨ Pick a category and answer like you’re on national TV: 🟩 What Do Avoidants Mean - for $200 🟦 Why Did He Ghost - for $400 🟪 Delulu Thoughts I Believed - for $600 🟨 Red Flags I Ignored - for $1,000 🟥 “He’s Just Going Through a Lot” - for FREE Drop your “question” (answer) in the comments. Make it honest. Make it delusional. Make it healing. I’ll start the first few below. Your turn contestants - the stage is yours. 🎤💔