“Welcome to the community! For our first discussion, let’s focus on comfort. Share one memory of the child you’ve lost, that brings you comfort or makes you smile. It can be anything – a funny story, a meaningful conversation, or a quiet moment that touched you. Remember, this is a safe space – share as much or as little as you feel comfortable. Supporting each other starts with sharing our stories.” I will start. My name is Diane and I thought this community would be a great idea. It is a way for us to all help each other on our journeys of loss. My sons name is Sam, and he is forever 17. He passed away on Apr 5th 2017. He was in a head on collision and was gone instantly. He was a fun, loving outdoors man who never stopped smiling and joking around. He was working on his tool and die trade and finishing up high school. He never got to walk the stage and receive his diploma. I smile when I think of him and miss him dearly all at the same time. I have learned that grief will not define me and I will not be the same person I was before that day. I live my life to the best of my ability and let grief tag along at times. There are more laughs and smiles now then there were 8.5yrs ago. But I do know, it has been a journey to get to where I am today.

No graphic details No medical debates No comparing losses Respect different beliefs Encourage professional support when needed Be courteous to one another Know ones grief is the same, be kind. Be supportive

I established this space as I, too, am a bereaved parent. This area was created for parents who are navigating the unfathomable journey of losing a child. Within this community, we do not hasten the grieving process. We do not make comparisons between different losses. We do not attempt to fix or pass judgment here. We remember. We provide support. We journey together. I created this space so that none of us have to bear this burden in solitude. I understand the sense of isolation that can accompany this journey. This community is not intended to resolve grief or accelerate healing. It is about offering companionship to one another with sincerity, empathy, and deference. I am not a therapist or a professional in the field. I am a parent offering support to other parents. Should you require medical attention, please consult with a medical professional. Additional avenues for assistance: If you require help, you may contact a: family physician psychologist / psychiatrist mental health nurse social worker Councilor Religous Leader Crisis line Canada, there are also provincial help lines.