Hello Everyone, We are excited for scheduled for tomorrow at 3pm est. We will be discussing the Next Steps after an affair. We will address: 1. Setting the stage for the questions 2. Building a needs structure that communicates the damage of the affair This is open to private members. We meet every Thursday from 3-4 pm est. If you miss it, there will be a recording that you can access. We look forward to seeing you.

If you recently found out and want your marriage to work, you do not have to explain everything to belong here. If you’d like to say hello, choose one: • A first name or nickname you are comfortable using. • What would help you most today: space to think, clearer questions, words for your needs, or support. • One small thing you want to make room for today. For example: “You can call me M. I want to give my marriage a chance, but I’m having trouble knowing what to ask for. I’m starting with the workbook.” A simple hello is enough. Reading quietly is welcome too. When replying, listen without pushing someone to forgive, commit, or make a decision. Ask before offering advice. Let each person choose how much to share.

You deserve room to learn without pressure to explain, defend, or decide everything today. These guidelines help us make that room for one another. 1. Share only what feels right. Reading quietly counts as participating. You never need to share affair details, introduce yourself, or post your worksheets. 2. Protect everyone’s privacy. Do not share screenshots, names, identifying details, or another member’s story outside this group. Avoid posting private messages or information about partners, children, or other people. A private group cannot guarantee confidentiality, so choose what you share carefully. 3. Respect each person’s choices. No shaming someone for staying, leaving, feeling uncertain, or changing her mind. Speak from your own experience. Ask before offering advice. Avoid diagnoses, blame, or instructions about what someone “must” do. 4. Keep support welcome. No unsolicited coaching pitches, promotions, or private messages. Ask permission in the group before contacting another member directly. 5. Keep the purpose clear. This is a space for relationship education and peer conversation. It does not provide therapy, crisis response, or guaranteed personal coaching. Do not rely on a post here for urgent help. If something concerns you, use the post’s report option or contact an admin. You do not need to handle it publicly. Thank you for helping make this a thoughtful place to learn.