Ever wonder why things aren’t working Then you pause and realize You’ve been carrying the weight the whole time Not to blame anyone But to notice the pattern When one person carries all the emotional weight Something important gets lost What are you carrying that’s worth looking at more honestly.... #reflection#selfawareness#emotionalgrowth#innerwork#emotionalload#checkingin

Emotional abandonment is not always about romance.You don’t have to be married… or even dating… to feel emotionally unmarried. You can feel emotionally unmarried with: • a parent • a sibling • a friend • a coworker • a leader • a church • a community • your own family • or a person you cared for deeply Emotionally unmarried is when: • you show up for people who don’t show up for you • you’re loyal to people who forget you exist • you’re the emotional support system for everyone else • you process alone, cry alone, heal alone • you carry responsibility with no reciprocity • you’re always the strong one • you’re never the one being poured into • you’re surrounded… but still feel alone • you give love freely… but receive emotional crumbs • you want connection… but get silence Sis… emotional abandonment doesn’t care about your relationship status.It cares about your heart space. And when your heart is empty, unsupported, unseen, unheard, untouched in the places that matter most… You begin to feel: - disconnected - unloved - invisible - overwhelmed - tired - shut down - emotionally unmarried But hear me clearly: You are not asking for too much. You’ve just been giving too much to people who give too little. If this touched ANY part of your soul ... 👇🏽 Comment “ME.”You don’t have to heal alone anymore. You belong here.We’re going to restore your emotional world… together.

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Take a breath ... you’re safe here. And you’re not crazy.You’re just tired of carrying the weight. Emotionally Unmarried™ isn’t about being legally married.It’s about being emotionally tied to someone who didn’t carry you back. Some of us were committed alone. Some in situationships. Some were girlfriends acting like wives. Some were wives treated like roommates. Some were engaged, separated, divorced… And some were never “official” but carried the relationship like it was a covenant. Emotionally Unmarried™ means: 🔥 You gave more than you got 🔥 You carried both hearts 🔥 You carried the mental load 🔥 You carried the spiritual load 🔥 You carried the apologies 🔥 You carried the confusion 🔥 You carried the hope 🔥 You carried yourself through nights you told nobody about You’re not here to fix them anymore.You’re here to find YOU again. That’s what GET ZINGED™ — Joy. Identity. Power. is all about. Tell me where you are: 1️⃣ I carried us 2️⃣ I lost myself 3️⃣ I’m healing now 4️⃣ I’m rebuilding my identity I respond to everyone. Welcome to Emotionally Unmarried™ — where you rise again and Get ZINGED!