💡 You know what I mean. No... O.k. Ever meet someone who sounds polite, but the undertone stings? That’s the “nice-nasty” at play. It shows up as sugar-coated criticism, backhanded compliments, or a smile with daggers underneath. It makes me suspicious of intent, others simply uncomfortable. It’s not just about personality — it’s a self-esteem issue. 👉 Aggression wrapped in niceness is often a shield for insecurity. I know this to be true I was the champ. Yes, I was trying to hurt you and I knew it. 🎯This week I'm going to talk about Self esteem.🎯 Resource: Worksheet Case Study: My words were polished, but my tone dripped with superiority. “Oh, you did it that way? Interesting.” I wasn’t cruel outright — but everyone felt smaller around me. The truth? My self-esteem was shaky. I didn’t trust that my worth stood on its own, so I armored myself with subtle jabs to stay “above” others. Always on the lookout for an intruder that could bust my huge ego bubble. Not today sir....... 🎯 How to Recognize “Nice-Nasty” in yourself. 1. Compliments that cut: “That dress looks good… for your age.” 2. Polite tone, disrespectful content or reverse. It leaves you feeling smaller, not supported. 3. Sarcasm passed off as “just joking.” 4. A smile that doesn’t match the eyes. 5. Feeling like you have to be armed and dangerous, at all times. 6. Listening for ammo not understanding. 7. Deciding that your past dictates hurting others. 8. Inconsistent body language — smile + dismissive tone. 🔥 4 Action Steps to Stop Being (or Tolerating) “Nice-Nasty” 1. Pause before speaking. Ask: “Is my tone empowering or diminishing?” 2. Name the pattern. If you hear it, calmly say: “That felt dismissive — can we try again?” 3. Practice kind directness. Replace passive-aggressive hints with clear, respectful requests. 4. Strengthen esteem. Daily self-acceptance practice reduces the need to tear others down. 5. What is my intention (honestly). What is the speakers intention? Ask if your not clear. 6. Be honest about your feelings and know what they are.

Family, I need to be real with you. Consistency has been my Achilles’ heel. I can create, coach, and pour into others with passion, but when it comes to showing up every single day—I’ve dropped the ball more than once. So I’m putting my money where my mouth is. Literally. 👉 For the next 100 days straight, I will post and comment here inside our community. 👉 If I miss a day, I’m sending $200 to charity—and yes, I’ll post the receipts. Why? Because I believe in integrity. I believe in keeping my word. And most importantly—I believe that consistency builds the momentum that changes lives. Mine and yours. This is my way of locking arms with you. Of saying: I’m all in. So hold me accountable. Call me out if I disappear. Celebrate with me as we stack the days. And if I slip, at least we’ll know a good cause got blessed. Here’s to 100 days of showing up, leading with heart, and proving that consistency is a muscle we can train. Special Thanks 💛 Thank you @Brittany Jones for holding coworking space. It means so much. It can be lonely out here in the wilderness, and your presence makes the road brighter. Let’s go. 🦁✨ —Yvette

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We are delighted to welcome @Ferna Majewicz into The House of Confidence. 🌿 Ferna is a Holistic Ambassador, Skin Care Guide, Toxin-Free Lifestyle Advocate, and Wealth-Building Mentor whose heart-led mission is to help people unlock both vibrant health and lasting wealth with practical, trustworthy solutions. She is thoughtful, kind, and deeply committed to creating safe, transparent spaces where women and families can thrive. Through her guidance, Ferna empowers others to: 💎 Choose toxin-free wellness with confidence 💎 Cultivate radiant skin and whole-body vitality 💎 Build healthier homes and healthier futures 💎 Grow wealth through purpose-driven leadership For decades, Ferna has walked her talk literally —mentoring teams, her own daily walking routine, supporting family by bringing technology into there lives, and proving that wellness and abundance can go hand in hand. Ferna, your presence here is a gift. You embody exactly what this community is about: confidence, care, and the courage to live aligned. 🌹 Lionesses, let’s shower @Ferna Majewicz with a warm welcome below 👇 and celebrate the light she brings to our circle. 🥂

Every once in a while, someone enters your life and reminds you what grace under fire looks like. For me, that person has been Tamara LaShea the "Eviction Coach. In my own darkest moments, she didn’t just stand beside me—she stood with me. With acceptance. With compassion. With a strength that asked for nothing in return. Her presence is a reminder that even in the hardest seasons, light exists. And she is that light. 🌹 Tamara's space is about more than evictions—it’s about protection, preparation, and power. Whether you’re a tenant fighting for your rights, a women’s group holding households down, or a nonprofit serving your community, Tamara brings strategies that keep families housed, informed, and strong. Her work is more than information—it’s a lifeline. It’s the kind of truth that can protect a home, preserve a family, and renew hope. Inside her world, you’ll find: 🏠 Real eviction defense strategies 📄 Lease education & tenant rights breakdowns 📍 Section 8 & housing voucher clarity 🛑 What to do before the constable shows up 💎 And wisdom delivered with equal parts brilliance and heart 👉 Connect with Tamara here:🔗 Stan Store📲 Instagram▶️ YouTube🎵 TikTok Tamara is not just The Eviction Coach. She’s a safe place. She’s a movement. She’s living proof that when knowledge and compassion meet, entire lives change. 🚨 With 18+ years in the property management game, Tamara LaShea is not here to play—she’s here to teach, empower, and equip. Please help me welcome her into this community with the same love and respect she so generously gives to the world. ✨Drop a🏠 in the chat.