This keeps showing up in my feed lately, maybe yours too? Today there is an "Identity Reset event" with lots of well-known speakers, and Aaron himself has been talking about identity quite a bit over the years. To be honest, at first I didn't really get why identity was such a big deal and what it actually meant. But I ended up being almost forced to explore it, because nothing else was working "enough" and I realized it was one of my biggest blind spots and was deeply it was affecting "healing". So I just wanted to share a few insights, in case they help someone else too🤍 🟣𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬, 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭... 𝐲𝐞𝐭 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠? ​ It's usually not because we "didn't get it." And while part of it can absolutely be the nervous system taking time to readjust, that's usually not the whole story. After years of exploring healing, I've noticed three things that are often overlooked. ​ ​ 🟡 𝟏. 𝐖𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲. ​ Many times, we uncover beliefs about money, relationships, health, self-worth, and so on. But we never uncover the hidden "I am..." statement that's quietly affecting every area of our lives. The one that has become our very foundation, even though we may be completely blind to it. So the core remains untouched, and the same patterns eventually return. ​ ​ 🟡 𝟐. 𝐖𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐯𝐚𝐥 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐢𝐧. ​ One core identity doesn't create just one belief or one behavior. It creates an entire chain of wounds, emotions, beliefs, coping mechanisms, and survival strategies that all reinforce one another. If you only change one part of the chain, the rest of it can quietly pull you back into similar patterns, even though you genuinely felt like you had changed. ​ ​ 🟡 𝟑. 𝐖𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠. ​ Insight is powerful, but understanding alone usually isn't enough to release what is encoded in the nervous system. If the body is still carrying unfinished survival responses, we can end up spending a long time learning, changing beliefs, and repeating meditations while continuing to experience the same emotional patterns and feeling "when I'm gonna change?".

I was inspired by Aaron's story from a while back about his pull to start creating a daily video when he got started, and how that was one thing that launched him into his first success as a creator. I finally got the pull I've been waiting for to do mine. I started last Monday—committed to getting to bed at 10 every night, so I can get up at 5, bike into a local nature preserve, set up my tripod and mic, shoot a video (2, actually because I'm shooting a different one every day to share on LinkedIn, under my real name), and be back home before my wife and kids are even up. This morning was Episode 9, and I just opened up with zero idea of what I was going to say before pressing record (every other day, I've planned the video in my mind while biking over). I've always wanted to host my own show, so created one and nominated myself as the host. My show is called, "Act As If," and it's about the power of acting as if you already are the person you want to be—because it's up to each of us to step into it, noone else can do it for us, and it's not dependant on anything outside of ourselves. If I'm being honest, I've been feeling pretty insecure about my videos—it feels like a very vulnerable act—especially since not many people are watching yet, but have kept going every day trusting that I am following a pull that is going to help me on the journey to where I want to go. Aaron's approach from his paid programs have helped me learn to be more comfortable on camera, and I just looked back at Episode 6 (from Sunday), and realized it's not actually as awkward as I once was on camera. Would love to know what you think, and please follow along if you're inspired to see how my journey unfolds.

I didn’t join High Vibes Tribe because I had all the answers. I joined because I was tired of carrying invisible wounds, repeating painful patterns, and pretending I was okay when I wasn’t. At first, healing felt uncomfortable. It forced me to sit with parts of myself I had spent years avoiding. The fears. The heartbreaks. The self-doubt. The versions of me that were still seeking validation from people who never truly saw my worth. But something changed. Day by day, I started choosing myself. I learned that healing isn’t about becoming someone new, it’s about remembering who you were before life convinced you that you weren’t enough. The more I grew, the lighter I felt. My mindset shifted. My energy changed. My confidence returned. The things that once broke me began to teach me. The people who left became lessons instead of losses. High Vibes Tribe didn’t magically erase my struggles, but it gave me the tools, support, and awareness to transform them into strength. Today, I’m still healing, still evolving, and still learning. But I’m no longer surviving, I am thriving. And if there’s one thing this journey has taught me, it’s this… The moment you stop chasing what hurt you and start healing what hurt inside you, your entire life begins to change. ✨

Happy Summer Solstice y'all!!! How are you feeling called to honour the unique energies of this time ??! Wishing you all good tidings . May you blessed and be taken care of. May you feel inspired to take the steps that are right for your soul. And may you feel strongly connected to the spiritual world that is always available and accessible to us - but especially powerfully felt during these momentous portals !!! Have a beautiful day !!!!

So I’ve always been curious about the world around me and want to know as much as possible. I was raised in the Methodist Christian community and although I have my own set of beliefs, I still struggle to find one religion/doctrine that fits. Beyond that I’ve had a fascination with all things space. My recent research in search of Universal Truths has all been one big rabbit hole after another. I do my best to make sure I have credible resources and different perspectives, but this time I feel like I can’t trust any of it. Now I’m so unsure of what is true or not and fear I may never know at this point. I’m just wondering, has anyone else encountered this dilemma? If so, how did you cope with the overwhelming amount of information?