As kindness is considered the highest form of intelligence, so must forgiveness be considered the highest form of love. It is only through forgiveness that we begin to truly see ourselves and our self worth and the possibilities/potential that we possess. Forgiveness (Be it of ourselves or of someone else) does not mean that what happened is acceptable, or that it’s ok to repeat, it means that we no longer allow the actions in question to affect our lives. So give yourself the highest form of love and let go of whatever pain or negative feelings, an action has caused for you. It doesn’t mean you condone it, it simply means that you’ve moved on with love for yourself.