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10 Powerful Identity Questions to Ask Yourself
Your life changes the moment you start asking better questions. Not questions about what you should do... But questions about who you are becoming. Take a few minutes today and honestly reflect on these: 1️⃣ Who am I being that is creating the life I have today? 2️⃣ What story about myself am I still believing? 3️⃣ What identity have I outgrown but continue to hold onto? 4️⃣ Who do I need to become to create the future I want? 5️⃣ If I truly believed I was enough, what would I do differently today? 6️⃣ What habits are reinforcing the person I'm trying to leave behind? 7️⃣ What fear is protecting my current identity? 8️⃣ What is one empowering "I AM..." statement I need to start believing? 9️⃣ If my future self were guiding me today, what would they tell me to do next? 🔟 What is one action I can take today that proves I am becoming the person I want to be? Remember... You don't change your life by changing your goals. You change your life by changing who you believe you are. 👇 Which question challenged you the most?
1 like • 25d
Great set of insightful questions to sit with
Your Results Are Not The Problem. Your Identity Is.
Most people spend their lives trying to change their results. They want more money. Better health. A stronger relationship. More confidence. More success. So they focus on the result. They try a new strategy. A new diet. A new routine. A new goal. But the result never lasts. Why? Because results are symptoms. They are the visible expression of something much deeper. Your results are created by your actions. Your actions are driven by your habits. Your habits are driven by your beliefs. And your beliefs are shaped by your identity. Most people try to change the fruit while leaving the roots untouched. They want a different life while thinking like the person who created the current one. The truth is: You do not get what you want. You get what the person you believe yourself to be is capable of creating. A person who believes they are undisciplined will find a way to break discipline. A person who believes they are not worthy will find a way to reject success. A person who believes they always struggle will find a way to create more struggle. The biggest transformation in your life will never come from changing your goals. It will come from changing the person pursuing those goals. Change your identity. Your beliefs will change. Your actions will change. Your results will change. The life you want is waiting on the other side of who you need to become.
0 likes • Jun 9
Indeed! I've been seeing identity mentioned a lot everywhere recently, what do you suggest as a first step for someone to address their identity?
My Sunday Afternoon Thougts…
You Don't Have Problems. You Have Stories. I heard something recently that really made me stop and think: "You don't have problems. You have stories." The quality of your life is often determined by the quality of the conversations you have with yourself. Think about some of the stories people carry: "I'm not good enough." "I'm not worthy." "Nobody loves me." "I'm not smart enough." "I'm always going to struggle." The interesting thing is that these stories are rarely facts. They're interpretations. Yet because we believe them, we start looking for evidence to prove them right. We notice every failure. We magnify every setback. We dismiss every success. Over time, the story becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. We call it self-sabotage. But perhaps it's simply a person acting in alignment with the identity they have accepted as true. You cannot consistently produce results that are out of alignment with your wiring. You will always gravitate back to who you believe you are. This is why lasting change is not about trying harder. It's about becoming different. Whether the challenge is your health, your finances, your relationships, your confidence, or your happiness, the question is not: "How do I get rid of this problem?" The question is: "Who do I need to become so that this is no longer a problem in my life?" That shift changes everything. Because it moves you from being a victim of your circumstances to becoming the creator of your future. Instead of saying: "This is just the way I am." You begin asking: "What if I've simply been living inside an old story?" We are creative beings. We have the ability to rewrite the stories we tell ourselves. To change our identity. To create different actions. To produce different results. And perhaps that is where real transformation begins. 👇 I'd love to hear from you: What is one story about yourself that you've been believing for far too long? And what is the new story you are choosing to live instead?
2 likes • Jun 1
@Tamzyn Wegrostek really nicely put!
3 likes • Jun 2
@Barry Schutte great share, shining light on a significant part of our identity work which is to pause, observe and reflect on the stories we're telling ourselves - within these stories contain things like confirmation bias, universal quantifiers (i.e. words that signify all or nothing e.g. always, never, everyone, all) and modal verbs (i.e. should, need must) - all of which contribute to us comparing ourselves to others and ultimately feeling like we're not good enough. Identity work helps us start to practice the assertion that 'We have the ability to rewrite the stories we tell ourselves.'
Your Life Is The Receipt Of Your Actions.
You cannot complain about the life you have when you keep avoiding the work required to change it. You say you want confidence… but you keep breaking promises to yourself. You say you want a better body… but your habits are still controlled by emotion, comfort, and excuses. You say you want peace… but you keep feeding the behaviors that are destroying you. At some point, you have to stop blaming: – your past – your circumstances – your lack of motivation – other people And face the truth: Your current life is the receipt for your repeated decisions. The hardest part of transformation is realizing that nobody is coming to save you. Not motivation. Not another Monday. Not another course. Not another “fresh start.” Your future changes the moment your standards change. Because every action is shaping your identity. And eventually… your identity becomes your life. I AM becoming someone I can rely on. 🔥
2 likes • May 26
@Barry Schutte well said - all this doesn't mean you have to have a go at yourself when you are asking yourself these kind of questions. Staying kind to yourself rather than judging gives us the space to shape our identity with our own confidence
1 like • May 27
@Barry Schutte exactly!
What’s One Version of Yourself You Never Want to Become Again?
Most people are not actually struggling with motivation. They are struggling with identity conflict. Part of them wants growth. Another part is still emotionally attached to the old version of themselves. That’s why: • You procrastinate on the thing you say matters • You self-sabotage after progress • You keep restarting instead of building momentum • You wait to “feel ready” before changing Your habits will always follow your identity. So here’s the real question: 👉 What identity are you finally ready to let go of? Read other people’s answers. You’ll realize you’re not alone. 🔥
What’s One Version of Yourself   You Never Want to Become Again?
0 likes • May 24
@Angel Sarmento this is a great start, you're defining to your subconscious what you actually want..
1 like • May 24
@Barry Schutte this is a great start to our work - to identify the characters/identities that we don't like. From here, we have the opportunity to see that these characters/identities are always a part of us and therefore don't need to be destroyed/never be seen again. That would be us rejecting parts of ourselves (into our shadow), and lowering our self worth even further. When we give acceptance, acknowledgement and gratitude for all that the character and identity has done subconsciously for us all these years, we bring our parts together and also give ourselves the message that these characters/identities don't need to run the show anymore, so we can retire them and let our true selves (driven by what we actually want) take charge. For example, The Overthinker The People Pleaser are 2 of my recurring characters/identities in my cast. By this, I mean that overthinking and people pleasing were automatic behaviours for me; by working with these characters, I've found alternative ways to meet the same needs they were meeting, thus letting my true self operate. This doesn't mean I never overthink or people please again, that's happened and will continue to happen - and that's ok. Instead of just letting the characters and identities continue unabated, we've given ourselves an alternative by forging our new identity through our true self
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