It's been a minute since I went live in this room. That changes Tuesday, September 29. 8:00 PM ET. Free. Right here in Holding Back. The training is called You're Not Struggling to Love Correctly. Let's tell the truth about it. Whatever's breaking down between you and your person… it is very likely not a love problem. You've known that for a while. What nobody told you is what the problem actually is. It's four things getting in the way of the love. Each one has a name. Each one has a tool. I'm naming all four that night and handing you the tool for each one. Own the Response. Examine the Wound. Filter Through the Right Lens. Change the Pattern. Not a mood. Not a mindset. Not "be more patient." A skill. And at the very end, one question. Just one. It tells you which pattern is actually yours. Not his. Not hers. Yours. Here's the event. Tap "add to calendar" so you don't have to remember anything: https://www.skool.com/relationship-experience-3646/calendar?eid=d04b421f1d914c0eb4f23c1d8247ae8c One thing before then. Drop it in the comments, one sentence… the argument you and your person keep having. Not the details. Just what it's about. I read what y'all send me before I go live. The replay stays up for 72 hours after, then it comes down. Come on, somebody. See y'all on the 29th. Vincent

Family, If you missed the live experience of Holding Back, the replay is now available. This wasn’t surface-level. We unpacked why we pull back when closeness feels risky, how protection turns into distance, and what healing actually requires. There are still real nuggets in this one. Don’t rush it — sit with it. Reflect. Engage in the comments. 👉 Click here the video below to watch the replay. After you watch, drop one takeaway below. Let’s keep the conversation going.

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First — thank you for signing up. You’re in the right place. If you’re here, it’s likely because you’re tired of wanting connection… but feeling something in you hesitate when it gets close. That tension isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom mixed with wounds. And we’re going to unpack that together. By the end of this experience, you’ll walk away: • With clarity about why you pull back • With language for what your heart has been protecting • Feeling understood — not judged • More aware, grounded, and empowered in how you approach trust This is a safe space. A real space. A growth space. Between now and the event, introduce yourself in the comments. Share (only what you’re comfortable sharing): 👉 Are you single, dating, married, or healing after something? 👉 What made you say “yes” to this conversation? Connection starts here — not just on the live. Engage. Read each other’s responses. Encourage one another. Momentum builds when community shows up. We’re just getting started. See you Sunday February 15th at 8 PM ET. — Vincent 💬