@Kayla Dixon thank you!!!

perspective is key in my personal opinion. each situation should be handles as its own event and the perspective we come into the situation has to be neutral from the start. If a court was being held against you and the jury was full of people who had a preconceived notion one way or the other woukd that be a fair trial? I assume we would all want a neutral party to "judge us" so it is only fair you come in as neutral, yes evidence may be stacked against them from the start. but we all should be allowed our day in court even our kids. now if you ask did you hit Jimmy and Sally says no but you saw it happen. Thats when you teach them their are conquences for their actions and lying is a 0 tolerance area period thats a different question tho. dont mean to ramble just very passionate.

@Kayla Dixon I also started to throw a fit when my kids did not like over the top but whenever their energy was meet with energy of equal intensity it seemed to at least break the cycle of the fit long enough to try and help them understand its sill when dad does it so dont you think you look silly also?