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5 contributions to Modern Masculinity
Being assertive
When I started my current job (I am a youth worker) I decided that I was going to be assertive. In the past I had sat back and was passive. If I didn't agree with something I would hold it in. So with this new job, I asked questions and started saying something when it didn't align with my values or the company policy. Recently, due to personal stress I found myself reacting out of fear. I reported safety issues that I feel are valid but I did it in a way that was inpatient and demanding. I feel like this was a good learning opportunity and I am slowly trying to find ways of building a relationship again with my managers. I would like to know what peoples thoughts are on this topic?
2 likes • Mar 7
I think it's in your head, you're not as mean as you think. Be more of a confident asshole, that's good for you :)
Is Modern Masculinity Weak? 🔥
There’s a lot of talk about men losing their edge. Some say society is softening men, making them weaker, more passive, and less capable. Others argue that masculinity is just evolving, adapting to new realities. 👊 Where do YOU stand? Are men weaker today than past generations? Has modern society stripped men of their power, or is this just an illusion? What does true masculinity look like in 2025? ⚔️ Drop your thoughts in the comments and debate like warriors, not victims. Tag another member and challenge them to answer. Let’s hear some real talk. 🗣
0 likes • Feb 14
@James Bernardo I thought it was in this book, it wasn’t. It was in a similar book I had borrowed from the library. It was when I studied developmental psychology, and into mistreatment, trauma and such. What I was about was perhaps more for children. Boys are expected to act out their strong emotions, perhaps because they are more disagreeable than girls as a personality trait. Girls are more agreeable and calm. I think all are expected to resist their emotions, and it’s more acceptable for women for women to seek help. It’s also seen that women have more depressive and anxiety symptoms. While men have more antisocial and anger problems. It’s easier to treat depression and anxiety by talk therapy. And easier to find something like martial arts for anger.
1 like • Feb 26
@James Bernardo Not respecting and honoring others. That's not what I describe. It's when a man hold back his strength and assertiveness, speak up and take place, because he has bought the narrative that men are the reason for all bad in this world, so he needs to succumb and play the victim, or the preparator. I have helped men in this condition, they push themselves down because they are afraid to step up. It's not the same as respecting and honoring others, sometimes it can be a way to hide insecurities.
Brothers, Share Your Wins This Week!
I want you to take a moment to recognise your progress, big or small. Too often, we focus on what we haven’t done instead of celebrating what we have. Make a post listing your wins from this week. It could be something big, like securing a new opportunity, or something simple but powerful, like sticking to a new habit. Here are a couple of mine: •Rearranged my workspace to be more efficient and productive, which has already made a difference in my focus. •Going to the beach today, giving myself time to reset and recharge. Don’t comment with your wins on this post, create your own, and support others in their wins. Let’s recognise our progress and build momentum together 💪🏼🙏🏼💜
1 like • Feb 16
I did my weekly tasks to 80%, and that’s great. Looking forward to next week 😀🤟
1 like • Feb 17
@Jack McGregor I see that now, my bad
MEN WERE BUILT FOR MORE - BUT WE GOT ROBBED
For thousands of years, masculinity was forged in the fire of mentorship, brotherhood, and purpose. Young men stood beside their fathers, learned from elders, and earned their place in the tribe through discipline and real-world experience. Strength wasn’t just muscle. It was responsibility. It was wisdom. It was knowing your place and owning it. Then came the Industrial Revolution and it ripped men from their roots. Factories replaced fathers. Machines replaced meaning. The bond between men shattered. Boys grew up without guidance, thrown into a system that valued obedience over leadership, production over purpose, survival over strength. And what did we get? ❌ Men cut off from their emotions, taught that feeling anything makes them weak ❌ Broken families and fatherless generations repeating the same cycles ❌ A lost brotherhood, where men compete instead of rise together This isn’t just history. It’s the reason men today feel lost, disconnected, and stripped of their power. But here’s the reality, you don’t have to be part of this system. You can take back what was stolen. Build your tribe. Find your fire. Redefine masculinity on your terms. Stop waiting. Stop numbing yourself. Step up. Men were built for more. 🔥 Drop a comment—what’s the hardest part of being a man today?
1 like • Feb 14
@Shane Hennah It's a fight for power, even if I don't recognize it as power, which some talk about. Feminism is all good, as long as it doesn't take away or push men down, which it has been turned into by some people. Their logic is that men dominate over all areas in the world, so they can't let to be who they are, so women and feminists should take over instead. It's a power struggle, and I would like it to be so that all are supported. Men improving and getting better, and being who they really want to be, doesn't take away women's opportunity to do that. All people have to find their way, and get there on their own. Some seem to believe that women should be helped more than other people to get there, like it should be a rigged system where certain people are helped by the system. And the argument is that men are smoothly transitioned into high level positions and job, etc. which is not true, in some ways men have it easier, in some ways women have. Still, all humans have to fight through pain and stress to get where they are. It's like a the grass is greener on the other side, "if only I as a woman would have it as easy as a man, my life would be sooo much easier and better", which is not true.
Welcome to Modern Masculinity – Read This First
Brother, you’re here because you know there’s more inside you. More confidence. More purpose. More strength. And you’re ready to start tapping into it. This isn’t just another group. Modern Masculinity is a space for men who refuse to settle. A place where you’ll sharpen your mindset, build leadership skills, and step into your power—without the B.S. society tries to push on you. What to Expect Here: 🔥 Real, no-fluff insights on confidence, leadership, and self-mastery 🔥 Tools to break free from limiting beliefs and weak habits 🔥 A Brotherhood of like-minded men, pushing each other forward This is just the starting point. The deeper work happens inside The Divine Masculine Brotherhood—where men committed to serious growth take things to the next level. But for now, start here: 👇 Drop a comment below and introduce yourself. Where are you at in your journey, and what’s one area you’re looking to level up? And then comment on someone else's introduction and make some new friends, some new brothers! Let’s get to work.
0 likes • Feb 13
@Jack McGregor That's a good question, I have thought about that now, perhaps it's about seeing patterns, higher level understanding, not the details or the tactics, so you can sort stuff out and just be.
2 likes • Feb 13
@Moses Njeri Taking responsibility, that's great man. We are all responsible!
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