Fortunately, my wife and I are not in any debt. Although we have argued about finances. My wife tends to be more uptight about the way we spend, which is a good thing, but it can be obnoxious. Her father is an accountant so some of that rubbed off onto her. My family was more loose about it all growing up so it has caused some slight tension between us. Her judging my family, and vice versa. She has definitely judged me harshly at times for no good reason and I’ve done the same to her for uptightness. On the other end of that, her views have helped make better decisions and my looseness helps at times too, seeing money more as a tool rather than an outright idol. I could work on how much I value money though, rather than having it on the very bottom of the totem pole. I like to keep my eyes off of it, not because I’m lazy but because I’ve seen first hand how a great amount of money can destroy men and divide families.