When your girl realizes she's messed up and she is missing a great opportunity by letting you go so she naturally comes back to beg for your time and attention, the rule is simple "There must be a sacrifice she does in your name for you" but I'm sure you already know that, if you didn't congrats now you do. Now I'm curious, how do you guys go about deciding what she should sacrifice ?..I believe the sacrifice I should ask for should be something that somehow improves my life and brings value to her at the same time. "I told her to give me her savings than I used the savings to take her out that same night" This is how I have decided to approach it, Do you think this defeats the point of the sacrifice if at the end of the day she benefits from the "sacrifice" ? The rules also say always reward compliance, so I might be accurate by doing it this way.