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Hey Tribe 👋
So something shifted recently. I came across the term spiritual tour guides and it just landed. Like — yes. That's us. That's exactly what Joe and I are here to do. So I renamed the community to Spiritual Tour Guides and I want to see how it flows. Here's why it feels so true: there isn't just one path. We're all living our own individual experiences, which means what heals you, what expands you, what takes you to the highest version of yourself — that's going to look different for everyone. Our job was never to tell you which way to go. It was always to show you the landscape, point out the trails, and let you choose. The choice is yours. The work is yours. The growth is yours. This space has always been about giving you tools — and that hasn't changed. It's just got a name that finally fits what it actually is. You'll probably start seeing this show up on our socials too. But you get it first. As always. 🦊 We show you the terrain. You choose the path. — Cindy & Joe
love it 🙌💚
Emotional Processing
There’s a quiet gap a lot of us are living in right now… We understand ourselves deeply — our triggers, our patterns, our past.And yet… something still feels stuck. That’s because awareness isn’t the finish line. It’s the map. The real shift happens when the emotion actually gets to move. Inside the Emotional Landscapes classroom at Radiant Health, we’re going deeper into what emotional processing really is — not as theory, but as a lived, embodied practice. This isn’t about analyzing your feelings. It's about finally letting them complete. If you’ve ever felt like: • “I know why I feel this way… so why am I still here?” • “I can explain it, but I can’t shift it” • “I keep looping the same emotional patterns” This space is for you. We explore how to: — Move emotions through the body (not just the mind) — Create safety in your nervous system — Release stored emotional charge — Turn insight into real, lasting change This is where understanding becomes transformation. If you’re ready to go deeper — come join us inside Emotional Landscapes. Your next shift isn’t more insights. It's allowing yourself to feel… all the way through.
Emotional Processing
I really enjoyed the post on Emotional Processing. I reluctantly accepted certain thought forms as my own when I was young and unable to protect myself inside. Being nagged by these old thought forms is probably as close as I get to "believing" nowadays, lol. Anyways, these thought forms hide in the depths of my body and neurology still. Emotional Processing showed me there is more than meets the eye in terms of letting go of these old beliefs. Just the tip of the iceberg, so to speak. I feel like I've had a backpack on since 1st grade, and it has given me a skewed perception of what learning is supposed to feel like. Too much theory, mot enough practice. Knowing feels heavy when I am paralyzed by ignorance.
@Joe Cindy That Ning Li video covered a lot of things I had been doing on my own, wrapped them up nicely, and helped me to study myself from a different perspective. Very helpful. Thank you!
"Why do we not go to the Creator with everything?"
Cindy asked this question last night, and I would like to give my interpretation. I have a very active imagination, and so I was shown this visual interpretation through my imagination. I am restating the question as I would ask. "Why do we call upon the multiple deities and gods and goddesses and manifestations instead of going directly to Creator with everything?" My answer: Creator is a doorway to the self. The Creator is a doorway to the "I AM" presence. Creator is where all of the deities and manifestations become guides, and Creator becomes that which the individual goes through in order to embed themselved or engender themselves into the collective story being told. As children, we are born aa both Creator and Creation, but we have not gained full responsibility over the two. Creator showed this to me as such. The Creator is a weaver with a needle and thread embroidering a great vision upon a tapestry. Upon this tapestry, Creator weaves all of the green life, the soils of the brown Earth, the sands of the desert, the red mesas, the many-layered canyons, the mountains, the volcanos and magma. Creator weaves the blue skies, the bright clouds and heavy clouds, the rains, the lightning, the rainbows. Creator weaves the rivers and oceans, the ponds and lakes. Then, Creator weaves the night sky high above the tallest mountains and where the sky shifts from light blue to deep blue. Creator weaves all of the stars out in the night sky. Creator weaves the Moon and her many faces. Creator weaves the Sun, and all of the rays of the Sun and all of that which the Sun touches out into the cosmos. Creator weaves the beauty of the Milky Way and far out galaxies. Next, Creator weaves the Auroras of the solar winds which touch the crown of our planet. Then, Creator weaves the four-legged and four-handed, the eight-legged and eight-armed, the finned-ones, the feathered-ones, the fuzzy-ones, the creepy-crawlies, the slithering-ones, you name it. Finally Creator leaves an empty space for us. Creator leaves that space empty for us until we grow up.
Why "just joking" never felt like a joke.
I learned two terms today that explained a lot for me—and honestly, it also helped me understand some of my own patterns. So I created a file on it in case it helps you too: Pseudo-hostility and pseudo-mutuality. Most people were raised inside two relational patterns they were never taught to name: Pseudo-hostility shows up as sarcasm, teasing, and subtle jabs disguised as humor.“I’m just kidding.”“Can’t you take a joke?” On the surface, it looks playful. But your body registers something else. The “joke” often carries criticism, dismissal, or underlying hostility. And if you respond to that impact, you’re labeled as “too sensitive.” That’s the trap. This is a double bind—a situation where the real issue can’t be addressed, which makes genuine connection impossible. Pseudo-mutuality is the opposite presentation, but creates the same outcome. It looks like harmony: politeness, quick apologies, “let’s just move on.” From the outside, these relationships appear close. From the inside, they feel empty. Connection is performed, not experienced. In both patterns, there’s a sensory mismatch: What you see (smiles, laughter, politeness) does not match what you feel internally. Over time, this disconnect trains you to override your own perception. You stop trusting your body, your instincts, your emotional reality. That is why these dynamics are so damaging. These terms were identified by psychiatrists in the 1950s and 60s studying highly dysfunctional family systems. They consistently found pseudo-hostility and pseudo-mutuality present in every case. Once you recognize them, you start to see them everywhere—families, relationships, workplaces, even sitcoms. The shift begins with naming it. From there, the work is: - Rebuilding trust with your own internal signals - Allowing real emotional honesty - Interrupting the patterns where they now live within you If you want to go deeper, we break this down inside the Radiant Health Classroom in the Emotional Landscapes folder—how to identify these patterns, how they shaped your nervous system, and how to start changing them.
Why "just joking" never felt like a joke.
Extremely helpful. Thank you.
🧠 Do You Know the 7 Intelligences?
Recently, a phrase was put in front of me: “Organize your intelligence.” At first, I paused. I love organizing my thoughts—making sense of ideas, patterns, and insights in ways that feel natural to me.But organizing my intelligence?That took things to a whole new level. It made me ask: 👉 What does it actually mean to organize how I think, feel, respond, endure, connect, decide, and adapt? Inside Mind Wisdom in Radiant Health, I’ve broken down the 7 Intelligences—not as labels for how “smart” you are, but as ways you survive, adapt, and relate to life. Even more importantly, there’s an invitation there: ✨ To become aware of your own ability to organize these intelligences ✨ And notice how that awareness alone can open a new level of self-understanding When you stop trying to fix yourself and instead learn how your inner systems are arranged, something shifts. 📍 Please check out the post in Mind Wisdom ✅ Green-check it when you’re done 💬 Share any new thoughts, insights, or realizations in this comment thread I’m curious—what changed for you when you started seeing intelligence as something you can organize, not just use? — Cindy
🧠 Do You Know the 7 Intelligences?
I am becoming accustomed to talking about my intelligence as a Relational Intelligence. What changed for me is how I interacted with people. I have gotten a lot better at finding the things people hold deeply to. While I still have trouble with this next bit, I practice allowing people to have the deeply held anchors in their linguistic realities and use these as guides as I get to know someone. The way in which each of us use words as a whole, our way will never align 100% with anyone. We are taught generally that language is a dictation meant for a dictionary, so I once practiced semantic debate and arguments. But the reality I find more fitting nowadays is that beneath our sense of meaning from one word to the next is our heart and our will. There is a primacy in understanding another person's practice before their philosophies or pathologies/psychology. Ultimately I have found the practice is what incorporates the words and feelings of a person and becomes a bridge between the objective meaning of a word and the subjective feeling of a word. Practice also becomes the catalyst for change in one's philosophies and psychology. Finally, practice becomes the thing that allows more space to grow in these areas. I heard recently the story you told about the Taoist sage and the pupil. The one where every time the sage talked, the pupil would say, "I know, I know." The sage decides to pour the pupil some tea, and he doesn't stop pouring until the pupil is moved to speak as the cup runs over, telling the sage that the cup is already full. And the point the sage was making is that the pupil should empty their cup before trying to fill it again. That for me looks like the integration of my current psychology (habits, unexplored emotions/triggers, seasonal cycles) with my philosophies (ultimate guiding principles, higher-self thinking) into my daily practice. One I have been able to successfully integrate these things into my daily, weekly, monthly, yearly cycle (whatever the case may be), then my cup is empty and ready to be filled again.
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Filam. I also go by the name Edén. I do a lot of things.

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