To become who we are becoming we have to let go of who we've been. Growth can be one of the most painful of journeys but travel this path we must. We do not want to get at the end of this road with regrets of the things we wanted and could have accomplished but did not make the time for. Maybe we are afraid of what will happen if we open up. We are afraid to leave a bad situation because we've forgotten what a good one even looks like for us. Somewhere along the way we stopped believing in our own strength and beauty. There are not enough voices telling us the Truth. Right now, let me be that Voice of fierce Truths. Of Integrity. Of Kindness. Of Leadership. Of Discipline. Of Love. Doors will swing open and cheers of love roar up to the sky. The journey is ongoing. The more we uncover, the more there is to uncover. Like peeling away layers of an onion, there is always more to discover, about ourselves and the life we're seeking. Evolution is unending, we are always growing. We are not the same as before, not even yesterday. Embody and embrace the person who knows there is more to this life. Be that, live that, share that. As this year comes to a close, move forward with the lessons learned and let the rest go with love. We will take those lessons, some very hard earned, and grow, evolve, integrate, thrive, and be the lighthouse for those who are struggling through this transition. Let your light shine. You never know who needs to see that light. And if your light seems to not be shining so bright, look for the one who is lit up, and turn in that direction. It takes courage to embrace the seemingly unknown. You are a Miracle waiting to happen. Don't let anyone hold you back. Working at the intersection of reinvention and dreams For the love of a Wild Woman ~ Tandy *My individually curated programs support women who are ready to create the most magnificent version of who they truly are. Magic to meet your individual uniqueness. DM for info or questionnaire

Healing (from anything) can be messy and hard but Not healing is a disservice to yourself and every current relationship you hold dear, and every future relationship waiting for you. Including and especially the relationship you have with yourself. Take control of your reality. Stand in your power. Own your life. You are the lead actor in the movie of your life! Do all the things, whatever that is for you. Expand your knowledge. You are the self led woman who knows what she wants. Find beauty and gratitude in what’s surrounding you. Be sincere, grounded and compassionate as equally as you are empowered, fiery and magnetic. The empowered woman, the woman ready to learn what it takes to fully embody self love, feel like the most irresistible woman on the planet and re-ignite crazy, sexy romance back into your relationships. You can recreate yourself as many times and as often as you like. It is never too late to reinvent, pivot, burn it down and rebuild your life! You owe no explanation for doing what is best for you. When you start to see from another perspective, you will be ready to take the time for the strategies to rewire those neurotransmitters that are the catalyst to real change in behavior patterns. When you make this move you'll attract the ideal people into your inner circle and maybe even fall deeper in love!! And because of that, you'll discover open windows where once were closed doors. Have the courage to live a life you love. Have the courage to have confidence in yourself and your dreams. Have the courage to know you are worth every bit of that dream life. A better way to live A better way to think A better way to "Be" Show up every day and be your sparkly self. You not only change the world when you do this, you show the people watching you that they can be their authentic self too. Fall in love with the woman you see in the mirror. You deserve a life that sets your soul on fire 🔥 Love all ways, Tandy 🌹 Excerpt from my book "Inspirational Musings to Self Care & Healing Trauma"

She'd felt different all of her life.... Then it occurred to her there was no one else in the world like her - she was unique And so are you. My bloodlines date back to the Vikings My ancestry is filled with Warriors My life is magick. I am magick. My life is mysterious. I am mysterious. My wounds run deep. I am not my wounds. I accept my oddities. I don't care if you do. The door has been opened and all you need to do is walk one foot in front of the other. Walk into the next chapter Walk into the next adventure Walk into your new life. It’s all waiting for me. It’s all waiting for you. My dear child, do not fear the unknown Courage is being scared and doing it anyway. The only limits we have are our beliefs. Don't worry about doing everything perfectly. Perfect is boring. A new journey awaits. Just walk. The past is an interpretation. Did you know memories are simply neurons firing? The future is a projection. Did you know you can predict your own future with today's actions? The present moment is where life actually happens. Did you know if you focus on the present moment you are living your best life? Healing is a lifelong process. Not like a physical wound that once the actual wound and scab are gone kind of healed. The scars are there forever. But they fade. Fade. Fade away. Until they no longer bring tears. Until they no longer bring pain. Until they are neurons firing. And the future is what we make it. Keep coming home to yourself. The light of sacred wisdom shines in all of us. Love all ways, Tandy 🌹

You are a woman with no land, no city. Your home is not outside. It is not even in the bones that keep your frame. It is that wildness you enter when you close your eyes, when you are almost dreaming. It scares you sometimes to venture there, because you must go alone. But go, you must. Go, to see yourself. Go, to meet the parts that you have forgotten. Go, to be free. Wild moon woman. I have this ache This wanderlust I want to go home I do not know where my home is Then it occurred to me Home is in my own heart Home is who I see in the mirror Home is in the eyes of my beloved friends Home is a feeling, not a place. Once we accept that We find peace We find love We find our own heart We find purpose You do not have to stay the same You do not have to apologize for evolving You do not have to apologize for outgrowing people, places, jobs, situations, relationships. You can transform. You can recreate yourself as many times and as often as you like and you owe no explanation for doing what is best for you. Step into your power We only have this one life Live big grow evolve transform integrate Walk your damn walk. Call forth your magic. Find your courage. Pick up your sword, and save yourself. Be the heroine of your story, not the victim. Come sit with me at this alchemical table and we will burn it to the ground and rise like the Phoenix. Love all ways, Tandy 🌹

You have the power to create the most incredible life. There are times you may doubt yourself. There are times you may think it's too hard. There are times you may believe you are just not cut out for the work, you're too tired, you don't feel 100%, you don't know where to start. The key is to find balance so that in holding the duality of life's pleasures and pains you find the resiliency to move forward with your plans of creating the life of your desires with sharp stellar emotional intelligence, clearing the way to focus on your wellbeing, mindset, and your health. Embrace all that you are. Even the unsure parts that you feel. Even the old paradigm that limits you. The changes come when you decide. As simple and as complicated as that. Decide. You want more. You want better. You want excitement. You want love. You are here to set yourself free from the patriarchy that tries to make us believe we are less than. Your mission is to find what turns you on, embody that and build your life and audacious dreams. It is never too late to change directions. It is never too late to recalibrate & rebuild. It is never too late to step into your dream life. Rewire your brain and to love yourself right where you are, with the knowing of your worth, crazy confidence, secure in your plans, and loving the life you create. Find your true purpose in this one life you have. You begin to hold a much higher standard for yourself. You don't need to find yourself. Simply return to yourself. DM for options available to set you on the path of rediscovery. Hello, if you don't know me and you're reading this.... Knowing me will change your life. I will not leave you the same. Ask me questions. I got you! Love all ways, Tandy 🌹