I don't exactly understand the 1st sentence here, so no comment on that. You are absolutely right about the healing process. Everyone heals differently and at their own speed/time. Healing is easier for some than others. For me healing takes a lot of time. I'm too sentimental maybe.

@Teresa Drum , I'm still healing/dealing with both my sister and my mom.. my sister has been gone since 1990. I talk to them both regularly. So if there is a timelines I've went over I'm sure.