The school year just started. The kids are back in the building. And somewhere in the middle of all of that — you’re still fighting. That deserves to be acknowledged. Most of what happens in a custody battle goes unrecognized. Nobody hands you a trophy for keeping your communication clean. Nobody applauds you for showing up to a drop-off and holding it together. Nobody celebrates the fact that you didn’t send the text you really wanted to send. But we do. That’s what this day is for. Win Wednesday exists because the wins in this process are real — even when they’re quiet. Even when they’re invisible to everyone except you. Your win this week might be: 🏆 A court date that went in your direction 🏆 A co-parenting exchange that stayed calm 🏆 Starting — or staying consistent with — your custody journal 🏆 Getting your kid to school on time every day this week 🏆 Choosing not to react when you had every reason to 🏆 Simply making it to Wednesday still standing No win is too small for this thread. The small ones are actually the ones that build the biggest cases — and the strongest parents. So tell us: What’s your win this week?

September isn't just the start of the school year. For parents in a custody battle, it's one of the most legally loaded months of the year. Here's why: schools are a flashpoint in custody disputes. Who gets school information. Who can attend events. Who makes educational decisions. Who picks them up. These things create conflict — often because parents don't know the law. So today, let's get clear on your rights. 1. THE RIGHT TO EDUCATIONAL RECORDS Under FERPA (the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act), both parents — regardless of custody status — generally have the right to access their child's educational records unless a court order explicitly removes that right. Request a copy of ALL school records if you don't have them. 2. THE RIGHT TO BE LISTED AS AN EMERGENCY CONTACT You have the right to be listed at your child's school as an emergency contact and authorized pick-up. If you've been removed without a court order authorizing it, contact your attorney immediately. 3. THE RIGHT TO ATTEND SCHOOL EVENTS Both parents typically have the right to attend school events — concerts, games, parent-teacher conferences — unless a restraining order says otherwise. The other parent cannot legally bar you from a public school event. 4. THE RIGHT TO TEACHER COMMUNICATION Request to be added to all school communications — emails, newsletters, grade portals. Teachers and administrators are generally required to accommodate both parents. Put this request in writing. 5. LEGAL CUSTODY DETERMINES EDUCATIONAL DECISIONS If you have joint legal custody, you have a right to weigh in on major educational decisions — school choice, IEP decisions, tutoring, grade retention. If you're being excluded from these conversations, document it and tell your attorney. The school year is 180 days of opportunity to demonstrate your involvement. Use every one. 💬 Have you run into issues at your child's school during your custody case? Drop your question below — this community has answers.

If you just joined, first — take a breath. You found the right place. Whether you’re just starting your custody journey or you’ve been in the fight for a while, this community was built for exactly where you are right now. Here’s how to get started: 📌 Introduce yourself below — tell us your first name, where you are in your journey, and one thing you’re hoping to get from this community 📚 Head to the Classroom — it will soon be filled with courses to help you get your footing fast 📂 Grab a freebie — check out our tracking templates in the resources section 📅 Join a coaching call — check the calendar for upcoming dates A few things to know about this space: ✅ This is a judgment-free zone — we don’t care about your past, only your future ✅ You are not alone in this — every person here knows what this fight feels like ✅ What’s shared here, stays here — please respect everyone’s privacy Drop a hello in the comments 👇 — introduce yourself and let the community rally around you. That’s what we do here. — Steven & Lea | Your Child Custody Coaches

Growing up, I was taught — the way a lot of men are taught — that handling your problems alone was strength. That needing help was a sign of weakness. That you put your head down, figured it out, and didn't talk about it. Then my custody battle started. And I tried to do it the only way I knew how. Head down. Alone. Grinding through it. What I didn't realize was that I was making it harder. I was missing things my attorney would have caught if I'd talked to them sooner. I was making emotional decisions I would have avoided if I'd had support. I was isolating myself at the exact moment I needed people most. The turning point for me wasn't a court win. It was the first time I sat across from someone who had been through it — who looked at me and said: 'I know exactly where you are right now.' That moment cracked something open. Asking for help isn't weakness. In a custody battle, it might literally be the thing that changes the outcome for you and your kids. That's part of why this community exists. Not to give legal advice. Not to tell you everything's going to be fine. But to make sure no parent has to navigate this alone. You don't have to be that tough right now. You just have to keep going. 💬 Was there a moment where asking for help changed something for you? You don't have to share details — just let us know we're not alone in this.

If you could go back to day one of your custody battle and give yourself one piece of advice, what would it be? We're asking because the wisdom in this community is REAL. Many of you have been through stages that someone else is just entering. Your answer could be the thing that saves someone months of pain, thousands of dollars, or a critical mistake. This community is stronger when we share what we've learned — the hard way or otherwise. So drop it below. What do you wish someone had told you? 👇 Let's fill this thread with real, hard-earned wisdom.