I have found that people generally want what's best for others based on their own view of the world and how they think things should be. While I don't mean that negatively, they have the best of intentions, but their thoughts and opinions are created through their own set of beliefs, ideations, experiences and filters. In the context of this situation though, my dual question for you is (and you only need to answer this to yourself honestly) why do you feel the need to ask this question in the first place and what is it about the situation that prevents you from agreeing with the proposition? Whatever your answer is to these two questions, ask yourself why this is, then whatever your answer to this question is, ask why this is and so and so forth until you have asked and answered five times... this five question process (asking yourself what the reason os for your asnwer to the initial question and them subsequent answers) will likely give you the deep core reason behind the reason for your initial answers / reactions. Hope this helps! Good luck!🦊