Episode 3 – From Control to Covenant: Healing the Marriage From the Inside Out What happens when faith, marriage, and survival collide? In this episode of The Leader’s Inner Revival, we sit down with Pamela from the Praying Wives Community for an honest conversation about marriage, identity, and spiritual alignment. Together, we unpack how control, condemnation, and self-protection can quietly take root in relationships—and how healing begins when God shifts our posture from striving to surrender. This episode explores the Mammon spirit beyond money, the Jezebel–Ahab dynamic as patterns (not labels), and the inner identity work required before real transformation can happen in marriage. If you’re a wife navigating faith in a complicated season, feeling spiritually alone, or longing for peace instead of pressure, this conversation is for you. Healing starts within. Covenant flows from wholeness.

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Take time to sit with these questions: - Am I waiting for perfection before obeying God? - Are there areas where fear or control are masquerading as wisdom? - What does surrender look like for me right now? Journal Prompt: “Where am I offering partial obedience?” Be honest and specific. Consider: - Areas you’ve delayed stepping out - Instructions you’ve softened or postponed - Places where you want clarity before surrender Write without judgment. This is not about shame—it’s about alignment. Invite God into whatever He reveals, and ask Him to help you surrender fully.

Identify one area where you’ve been rushing God: - a launch - a post - a conversation - a decision - a next step Recommit that area to Him in prayer. Ask: - “What are You saying?” - “What is the timing?” - “What is my next obedient step, even if it’s small or unseen?” Write it down. Obedience begins with agreement.

- Where has God already placed influence in my life or work? - Have I viewed abundance as margin and freedom, or only as money? - Am I waiting for permission or responding to God’s call?