@Kimberly Edmundson respectfully, unless this is something that’s happened to you directly I would refrain from sharing information like this as is creates alot of fear within these spaces. I am absolutely in agreement with you that something like that could happen and I am sure it has happened. I am in no way suggesting not being prepared when dealing with the medical industrial complex, because you absolutely need to be. However, is your preparation coming from a place of love or out of fear? If it’s coming from a place of fear not only will everyone around you feel that, but your body will be in a state of fight or flight and you cannot make the best decisions while in that mindset. Also, when acting on fear, and doing research about what you need to be prepared for, will dramatically shift the information you find and are influenced by, perpetuating more reasons to be afraid - which creates more ways to make mistakes. When operating from a place of confidence and remembering why you are doing this work in the first place you remember that you’re doing it out of love and you will always be in the right place and right time. Even when you’re under pressure or scrutiny, you will be given the choice of what path you want to take. I just had my baby at my local hospital. I politely and respectfully declined everything, i studied up on my rights and responsibilities, i had casual pleasant conversations with every medical personnel i encountered during my 9 months of pregnancy, I never explained anything to anyone and when i arrived to the hospital to deliver my baby I had the most helpful nurse guide me through my unmedicated labor. Our room was named the “Zen Room” because that was my energy. That nurse honestly felt like a guardian angel to us. When all of the nurses that came into the delivery room when it was time for me to push, made sure everything that I had written down was happening, even correcting other nurses for me as i couldn’t do it while in active labor. I felt safe, respected, and cared for during my time there. But that how I felt even before i walked through those doors.