Umm idt it's anything like your forgettable or you stink. I think it's more of a creator plan issue. We can never see the end of grand tapestry until it's actually finished we can only see threads at a time and tonight is one little thread. Sometimes they aren't the gold and silver threads that we luck up and see on the good days. It could be just a little turd color thread that we see on the bad. The day is lame, uneventful and sad depending on the color. The reason it's this way, we can't always understand but there is always a reason it's there. Something that makes the tapestry beautiful. It makes us grateful for the more beautiful threads and good days. Don't let being left out make you sad there could have been a reason you didn't need to go out tonight. Don't let it bring you down. Let it make you greatful for all the other threads in your life and rejoice.