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Healing in the Everyday

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22 contributions to Healing in the Everyday
Introduction
Hi everyone, I’m Gabriella. I’m grateful for the approval to join this group, and I’m really happy to be here. Thank you!
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Welcome
What is the hardest part of the caregiving journey?
MONDAY Reflection: Caregiving asks so much of the heart. It’s not just the tasks — the medications, appointments, and routines — but the quiet, unseen moments that weigh the heaviest.The hardest part of caregiving often isn’t what happens in a day, but what happens over time — the slow fading of the person you love, the shifting of roles, and the constant tug between duty and love, exhaustion and grace. You may find yourself mourning someone who is still here. This anticipatory grief — loving and losing in the same breath — can feel like standing in two worlds. It’s okay to acknowledge that. It’s okay to feel the ache of missing conversations, recognition, and shared memories.Even as you pour yourself into caring, you are also grieving what once was. Remember that it’s not weakness to admit that this is hard. It’s honesty. And honesty is where healing begins. Take a deep breath and remind yourself: I am doing sacred work.I am showing up with love.I am allowed to feel both strength and sorrow.
Change is hard… how can we help with the transition.
Change can be very hard for somebody who doesn’t have a cognitive decline, but if they do have one, it makes it even harder for them so in order to have a smooth transition, you have to have patience and only introduced one change at a time.
Change is hard… how can we help with the transition.
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That is a great question Baily! We need to start with one task at a time and use repetition to help with the transition. Once they have one task down we go to the next one. Because things are different we need to be patient with our loved one.
Take Time for yourself....
Taking time for yourself is not selfish. It is self preservation.
Take Time for yourself....
1 like • Oct 30
@Baily G thank you Baily!
Welcome New Members!
Welcome new members! please introduce yourself and tell us more about you!
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Welcome!
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Stacey Gladfelter
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’m Stacey, founder of ILO Senior Consulting and author, helping families navigate senior care, Medicaid planning, and grief with compassion, and hope.

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