In the last two months, I gained 25 kilos — yes, physically — along with so much negativity. A very serious relationship ended in a very short time, even though I gave it everything. I had to increase my medication dosage because the person closest to me let go of my hand. I scored very low marks in my exam. I cried a lot, begged, ran away from people. For the longest time, I truly believed I had lost everything. But today… after reading a post on Skoolers, I realized something powerful. I didn’t gain anything negative except my weight. In fact, I left behind so many toxic things — the kind that feel like poison while trying to remove them, the kind that hurt like fire when you try to put them out. And when I look closer, I see what I actually gained… I gained my ex back as a good friend.I built a community of around 400 people.I grew financially.I wrote the 5 best poems of my life.I created 8 YouTube videos that are slowly growing.I stayed productive on my laptop for 8 hours.I gained the wisdom that in a life where you are treated like an option, even giving your life won’t make you a priority.I learned that the easiest way out of pain is to forgive the one who caused it. And today, I make a promise to myself — two months from now, I will have lost the 25 kilos I gained, and I will have gained confidence and better marks in my exams. With confidence, I’m sharing this for anyone who feels lost, anyone who is hurting, anyone who might cry tonight. Maybe, just like that one post helped me, this message will speak to someone too. So today, I promise myself:I did not lose — I gained.The results may take time, but they will come… and they will be worth it.