Your Past Doesn’t Define Your Future!
This was inspired by a member of our community and I want to address it because I see a lot of artists struggling with it. Which is the mindset that success is easier for others or impossible for you because of your past or current challenges. Let me share a little of my story, and I hope it resonates. I grew up with rejection at every turn. My father was absent. My mother struggled with alcohol, and at 8 years old, I was sent to a boarding school against my will. By 19, I was numbing my pain with drugs. By 21, I was lost, broke, and sleeping on the floor of an empty apartment after failing my dream of becoming a successful photographer. My self esteem was completely crushed and I felt completely useless and worthless... After that I started painting and I faced a ton of rejection in my art, too. People told me their kids, their grandmas, even their dogs, could paint better than I could. I was shy, terrified, and cried over the smallest challenges, like making a simple phone call at my job. But here’s the truth: NONE of that defined me. What changed? - I decided to face my fears. - I committed to healing my traumas, investing healing courses, doing ayahuasca, doing forgiveness meditations and much more since years. - I SHOWED UP every single day, no matter how hard or uncomfortable it felt. Here’s what I’ve learned: Building a career in art, or anything, takes practice, just like learning a language or mastering your craft. You’re going to be bad at it in the beginning, and that’s okay. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about showing up, failing, learning, and improving. Stop comparing yourself to others. I didn’t have it easy. I worked through 12 years of trauma, rejection, and tiny progress. Success wasn’t handed to me; I earned it step by step. You don’t know someone else’s struggles, and comparing yourself only wastes time you could spend building your own dream. Ask yourself: DO YOU REALLY WANT THIS? If the answer is yes, then you have to accept: