Being a volleyball parent to a competitive player definitely has its ups and downs! One thing my daughter told me she appreciated was that, since I never played volleyball myself, I didn’t try to coach her. Over time, I’ve learned that one of the most helpful things I can do is just be her biggest supporter. These kids already deal with a lot of pressure—from coaches, teammates, and even themselves. I try to be her safe space, where she knows she’s loved no matter how she plays. No need to be perfect or always “on” to earn that.