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2 contributions to Shangriballa - Non Dual Group
Non-Duality: From the Mountaintop to Your Laptop
Isn't it funny how some concepts, which once felt so far away, are now popping up everywhere? It's as if non-duality is having its moment, suddenly appearing in podcasts, on social media, and in various spiritual circles. We've got to wonder what it even means to us, here and now, in the middle of our chaotic, modern lives. Non-duality, a simple idea with a big history, literally means "not two." It's the understanding that there's no fundamental separation between you and everything else, between the observer and the observed, or between the self and the universe. A hundred years ago, this concept was mostly reserved for mystics and monks in remote monasteries. It was something you dedicated your entire life to, often giving up worldly possessions and human connections to pursue. The non-duality of a century past was often about escaping the material world to find a deeper, singular truth. But today, the conversation is different. It's more about how to live this truth right here, in the messy, dualistic world we inhabit. We aren't all moving to a mountaintop. We're trying to figure out how to be "not two" while paying bills, raising kids, and navigating social media. This is where the struggle comes in. It's easy to read a book or listen to a talk and feel a glimmer of non-duality, but putting it into practice is a different matter. That's a whole other story. Here are some challenges: - The "I" is Sticky: We've spent our entire lives building up this identity, this "I," with all its stories, preferences, and fears. Suddenly being told it's not real, that it's just a concept, can feel disorienting and even threatening. How do you go to work and get things done if there's no "doer"? - Emotions vs. Detachment: Non-dual teachings can sometimes be misinterpreted as being emotionless or apathetic. People worry that if they don't experience anger or sadness about things, they won't be able to stand up for themselves or others. Non-duality isn't about getting rid of emotions; it's about seeing them for what they are, just passing sensations, without letting them run the show.
2 likes • Aug 30
Very helpful, thank you my sister. While the ego keeps begging to keep things separate, I find myself there more often than not - seeing the separateness. I am however bringing the oneness to things I love, like nature and the people I love. I struggle, with the people I don't like for eg: an aunt who is currently bullying me. In this situation, I struggle to see how being bullied is the flow of life and that I am not separate to her. So it's trying to see past this...I feel stuck here
1 like • Sep 6
@Lisa Silva This is wonderfully explained with loving guidance. I shall work on this. Thank you xx
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1 like • Aug 12
Hi Lisa, thanks for this post. For me, I'd like to understand more about non-duality and also how to bring our bufo experience into daily life. There is also a big part of me that keeps yearning to be back there and therefore, I don't feel present at times. Perhaps mindfulness practices? Thank you xx
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Shanita Cesaire
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Grateful for our Bufo family x

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