@Tracy Struckman we went through the same thing, even after being on the road for 4years our families still hound on us. But in the end life is really short when you break it down. We've met alot of retired couples/widows/widowers. And every single one said the same thing. They all wish the did it sooner, didnt focus as much on the career. You only live once. Ill leave you with this quote by Mike Posner "everyone wants you to forget your going to die, because if they convince you you're not going to die. You waste your time doing what they want you to do, spend money on what theyre selling." Also we are a fulltime family of 5