Good day Lads, here's the replay from the mother wound call last night:

See you tonight for the community call centered around diving in to the wounds and aspects of ourselves that have been deeply affected by our mothers and how to release them. Sean Graves is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting. Topic: Mother Wound (Elemental Men's Community Call) Time: Sep 24, 2026 06:00 PM Mountain Time (US and Canada) Join Zoom Meeting https://us06web.zoom.us/j/87912352869?pwd=khJxOHPGDEvumIhl9b9222v8UvIooa.1

Just to echo what @Chinzorig Davaatseren pointed out, I don't know what is in the air right now but in the last week or so, I have seen a number of men in my circle run from accountability when it was needed the most. Right when they started touching the flame they jumped ship and dove back into isolation mode when the pain came up. I highly recommend pairing up with someone in here and having a weekly or bi monthly check in for commitments and actions you wants to follow through on. Christopher and I do that for each other pretty much weekly and it's invaluable. Let's not have this community of all places be a place of hiding and not participating. All that is showing is a deeper shadow at play. Give yourself the gift of 3-6 months of high level accountability, follow through, and participation and watch how much things change.

For those of you participating in the journal challenge, what's the biggest thing being revealed in the first phase? Also what's your big death cookie for this 30 days? Example) For me it's been being very intentional with setting a time and making sure I'm not in the energy of doing a homework assignment like I'm back in school trying to rush through it and check it off the box. I notice that energy coming in strong sometimes when I sit down to do it. I also find a tightness around telling myself the truth and looking at something uncomfortable like "Wow I said I was going to do this thing days ago and it's not moved at all." This coming Thursday at 6pm, we'll be holding a call around the Mother Wound. Your mother is more than the one who gave you physical life. She is your first experience of a relationship. Through her, you first encounter love and pain, comfort and challenge. In healing your relationship with your mother, you also heal and free yourself from dysfunctional patterns that may have adversely affected your life. "Your mother, is not someone who appears by accident. Her energy, her temperament, her emotions, her strengths, and even her limitations all become part of the field in which your own awareness begins to unfold." "If compassion is what needs to blossom within you, you may be born to a mother who finds it difficult to express love, inviting you to discover that love within yourself." "Before you took your first breath, you came into this life through her. You entered the very circumstances that would offer the greatest opportunity for awakening. Nothing about that choice was random. It was guided by a wisdom far greater than the thinking mind." -Paramahansa Yogananda Call Link will be in the calendar.

Good evening my brothers, I've been doing a lot of reflecting today as I like to do on the life anniversary and I felt a swell of a prayer come through I wanted to share with you all. First, I wanted to give you gratitude for being here in a space that many men are afraid to be in or have massive resistance towards. I've had some big let downs from men in the "transformation/healing" space lately who ran from accountability and brotherhood when it was needed the most right as the deep part of the shadow was being touched by the light. My prayer for every man in this community is that you start coming into the true remembrance of who you are and the fact that you are a fucking magician walking around in a sea of possibility! This isn't just about trying to heal yourself, it's way more about waking up from the dream spell and realizing you are connected to the Source of all things. That connection is our only solace in a world of illusions that so easily pull people in and keep them in fear and emotional loops of unworthiness. My prayer is that you become that man for your family, for your children, who found that magic within him again and devotes to bringing it to life. To be a steady model for them of a man who's not afraid to live with his heart open and follows the call of his SOUL. That all traces of lack and separation dissolve for you. So your kids, the people you care about most can look at you and see an embodied leader who has chosen to love himself so deeply that he can't remain at all in the dark any longer. That you become such a shining fucking example of this that it starts to become normalized in our world. It becomes the blue print. Oh yeah that's what men of earth do. They get into alignment with their joy, what they feel the most alive about, and they fucking create things that add value to the world and they do it with a fierce and outrageous love in their heart. They pair and get supported with other man doing the same and talk about their visions, their journey, what's working, what they're learning in the process, ways to sharpen.