So what do you do if your wife can't stop gambling and she's choosing not to talk to this other guy because she needs to see what life is like without being married? This is what I'm dealing with right now. She's going to get her own apartment and she needs to figure out life????

How do I show my betrayed wife that I still love her and I want her part of the family's life

So how do I the husband get my betrayed wife stop bringing up the past? Im trying to be the best I can and all I hear is " well for 25 years it's been different why change now"