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What is your biggest fear right now? Mine is - To not have what it takes to provide for my family, to let them down.
2 likes • Jan '24
@Nahikari Mendoza Haha thank you, yes I'm still in the process of learning this so definitely not perfect! But here's what I did so far: For about 8 months in 2022 I worked really hard on myself, did a lot of inner healing and solved a ton of topics that created my limiting beliefs. Now if one of them does pop up again I can identify it really quickly because I already know it's not true. I used my intuition & connection to God to identify and solve all of those topics. And I use a technique I call "sitting in the cinema" which I use when I have some intense emotions, thoughts, a problem in life – I basically zoom out of my life, look at it from the outside with a neutral perspective. That way I can identify what's true and what's only my belief/emotions because of my perspective at the moment. Also a lot of biases and excuses start with something like: That's not possible, that's not how it's done, I can't do this, It's not gonna work, I'm not good enough, They don't like me, I only do this because of xyz, I will do it later, and so on. As soon as I observe something like this in my thoughts my "alarm bell" goes off and I ask myself: who said that? why do I think that? what am I trying to protect myself from by thinking this way? often the answer points to deeply rooted beliefs like "I'm not good enough", "I will get rejected" or "I will fail". But I solved a lot of these deeply rooted beliefs already, so they don't resonate super strongly with me anymore. Also I don't 100% identify with my thoughts (aka I don't straight away believe everything I think). I am not my thoughts, I am the observer of my thoughts. So I always look at my thoughts and put them into context and into perspective and I only fully accept the thoughts that are functional & good for me. For example, right now I am in between jobs and I often see myself thinking things like "I'm never gonna make it, I should give up, I should get a normal job" etc. but I don't accept these thoughts for me/I don't identify with them. I also don't reject fully them because I see that they make sense in my current situation and I respect and understand the part of me that feels and thinks that way. And at the same time I will prove to that part (by tangible success) that I will make it and all those worries are not coming true! Hope that helps you🥰
2 likes • Jan '24
@Phillip Delaney thank you so much, I'm glad I could help you!
Being ALL IN and being 100% honest with yourself – some thoughts
A big breakthrough for me came after I realised that I played small my whole life because "what if I give it my all and I still fail? better play it small so I never have to face that" – I realised if I give it 100% and I am fully all in, I can't really fail, I can have setbacks and rough lessons... but you only fail if you give up. If you continue you will succeed eventually! I also struggled to go all in because I thought it would be too hard. But then again: Going after your dreams can be hard – not going after them and playing small is hard as well. Choose your hard :) Giving your all looks different every day, and being "ALL IN" is more of a lifestyle: I am 100% committed to myself and my goals! It's mainly a commitment to myself – I never go after a goal in ways that would harm me, I go after them in ways that light me up! I just check in with myself again and again, observe my thoughts and emotions and I am 100% honest with myself – do I hold back because of fear? Do I try to make excuses and sell them to myself, so I don't feel bad about not giving my all? Even if the answer is yes I do not judge myself. I just observe myself, my thoughts, my emotions without judging them and I make an effort to always be honest with myself. If I don't judge myself there's no reason left to lie to myself! It's okay to be afraid or desire security. I just take some time off, take care of my emotions but don't let them take control of my actions. Here’s my process on being honest with myself: For about 8 months in 2022 I worked really hard on myself, did a lot of inner healing and solved a ton of topics that created my limiting beliefs. Now if one of them does pop up again I can identify it really quickly because I already know it's not true. I used my intuition & connection to God to identify and solve all of those topics. And I use a technique I call "sitting in the cinema" which I use when I have some intense emotions, thoughts, a problem in life – I basically zoom out of my life, look at it from the outside with a neutral perspective. That way I can identify what's true and what's only my belief/emotions because of my perspective at the moment.
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Just discovered a great hack for 100% concentration! (ADHDlers, pay attention :))
TL;DR: put on some concentration music/frequency music in the background while watching the coaching program! Due to TikTok/the fast pace of social media my attention span is pretty low and this evening I set the goal to study at least 20min in the Expert Coach Program. I had the random idea to search up "frequency for concentration" on YouTube and found a 3h video, lowered the sound on YouTube so it's just background noise... and what can I say – now I'm already studying in here for one hour, and I love it so much! I also have to give credits to @Ed JC Smith and his team for making this program so interesting and game-ified :) hope this hack helps some of you as well!
Just discovered a great hack for 100% concentration! (ADHDlers, pay attention :))
2 likes • Jan '24
@Nic Hutson you're welcome 🥰
0 likes • Jan '24
@Charlie Mackenzie Great tip, I'll try that as well! I'm glad it works for you :)
What inspired you to join Expert Coach?
My night time study well under way 🎊 feeling deeply inspired @Ed JC Smith
What inspired you to join Expert Coach?
1 like • Jan '24
@Cassandra Bradshaw It works really well for me so far, and you?
1 like • Jan '24
@Cassandra Bradshaw that sounds great!
Watching posts
Sorry if this is a silly question but when you start watching a post, does it pin to the top of your feed? And or, does it get saved somewhere else? Thanks in advance 👍
0 likes • Jan '24
@Tania Danielle sometimes I feel like a boomer even though I should know this stuff🤣🤣
1 like • Jan '24
@Tania Danielle oh that's the baby boomer generation, born between ca. 1955-1969. Most of them are not that well versed with technology, that's what I meant by that
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