So many times we say - I need to better myself. I know what we mean...but honestly, what is wrong with you in this very moment? And in the next moment? And if you ask yourself this question, you are not allowed to think of past mistakes or future scenarios to prove your point. You only have this moment. And this one. I am not asking who you were and who you want to become. Sometimes we grow, not even knowing that we did until we are faced with a situation where we would've responded differently in the past. We have so many demands on us that 'becoming a better person' should not be one of them. Maybe we could just show up consistently, be kind, laugh, forgive yourselves and others, make changes along the way and breath. Maybe it is not about becoming a better version of yourself - maybe it's about 'unbecoming' who you are not. What lies, limiting beliefs, fears and destructive narratives should be left in your past? I invite you on a journey of 'unbecoming' 🧡

The good news: time flies. The bad news: you are the pilot This is both a scary and a freeing thought at the same time. We are more in control than what we want to admit. We control every thought, decision, choice or action we take. How much of your life are you willing to watch pass by? Time doesn't wait, it is not slowing down, it is not asking your permission. Maybe it's time to take control and actively set the course. What is one area in your life that you know you need to take control over?

I struggled with a feeling of wasted years for a very long time until I saw this post. I felt my life should've looked different to the life I was living. I felt stuck, frustrated and ungrateful at times. My age became a problem and I felt like I 'missed it', When I saw this post, I found myself saying out loud: Yes! It is not over yet. It's not too late! I'm still here ... I decided to let go of the narrative of wasted years and held onto the new realisation that it was all just preparation.

You will never know the impact you have on someone's life. Never underestimate the power of a seed - good or bad. Choose your seed wisely.