Alan Watts always hits home. This one gave me some insight on a previous very short lived and incredibly intense relationship...."When you fall catastrophically in love with someone, when you can't stop thinking about someone, when their presence seems to complete something missing in you, you're not seeing them...you're seeing your own unlived potential projected onto their form. They become a screen for your own undeveloped self." Since that short lived relationship (ended quickly in heartache for both parties, both confused at the intensity and the ways we expected the other to be), I've actually taken a similar path and make similar tools to what they did (at the time I marveled at their skill), which led me to my new and wonderfully healthy, balance, and loving relationship in which we make these together. Very interesting.