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33 contributions to Titans 4 Life - The Forge
The Broken Dollar
Ever feel like your paycheque doesn’t stretch nearly as far as it used to? You’re not imagining things. Inflation slowly eats away at our purchasing power. Groceries, housing, vehicles… everything seems to cost more. As Brad Ollen discussed on the podcast, we’ve had to become more financially educated just to keep up. (You’ve seen some clips on social media… Full episode out November 25th.) We can’t control inflation, but we can control how we respond. Learning about money, saving consistently, and making informed financial decisions matter more than ever. FORGE ACCOUNTABILITY What’s ONE expense that’s increased the most for your family over the last few years? Let’s hear it, gentlemen.
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The first one I always think of is the cost of gasoline. Whatever the cost of it is we always need it, but it sometimes can affect the way we think beyond that. Is it worth taking a road trip for the day somewhere? If so how much money can we spend on said trip? If we take the trip, and spend money on traveling and getting whatever we decide on wherever we are, are we going to have to cut something else out of our budget maybe for a week to balance out or come out ahead? That's what cones to mind first for me at least
The Subscription Audit
Netflix. Spotify. Amazon Prime. Gym memberships. Random apps. Ten bucks here, twenty there. Before you know it, you’re spending hundreds every month on subscriptions you barely use. It’s not about cutting everything you enjoy. It’s about knowing where your money goes. FORGE ACCOUNTABILITY Take five minutes today and check your recurring payments. What’s ONE subscription you could cancel and wouldn’t even miss? Small changes add up, gentlemen.
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I've been considering cancelling my satellite radio. I don't use it as often as I should for what it costs since I now listen mostly podcasts or regular radio.
Financial Audit Month - The Wake Up Call
Alright gentlemen, welcome to November! Last month, we focused on Never Zero. Building discipline, keeping promises to ourselves, and raising our standards. This month, we’re taking that same mindset and applying it to our finances. Here’s something I’ve learned over the years: You can work your ass off, make great money, and still have absolutely nothing to show for it. Especially in the trades and oilfield, where a good paycheque can make it pretty easy to justify that new truck, another toy, or a lifestyle that’s constantly getting more expensive. And there’s nothing wrong with enjoying the money you’ve earned. But at some point, we need to ask ourselves: Are we actually building wealth, or are we just financing a lifestyle? Are we putting money away for our future, or spending everything we make? Are we teaching our kids good financial habits, or passing down the same mistakes? Financial discipline isn’t about being cheap. It’s about creating freedom. yes Freedom from unnecessary debt. Freedom to make decisions without constantly worrying about money. Freedom to spend more time doing the things that actually matter. Over the next 30 days, we’re going to talk about spending, saving, debt, investing, inflation, and building better financial habits. No judgment. No comparing bank accounts. Just men learning to take more control of their financial futures. FORGE ACCOUNTABILITY Let’s start with a simple question: What does financial freedom look like to YOU? Being debt-free? Retiring early? Owning your home? Having enough money to spend more time with your family? Drop your answer below, gentlemen. Because before we can build a plan, we need to know what we’re working toward. New month. New focus. Same standard.
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I'm not sure if I really have a plan or goal I'm working towards, I just like watching the savings account grow knowing that if I spend it's not going to grow. So I continue to build it, taking out for home repairs and necessities that life brings. But if I build the bank accounts, as I'm making my home better for the long term, and taking care of day to day, month to month, year to year, etc expenses, overtime I can begin to live with less stress of having so much I need to spend on if I put it off vs living in a comfortable position in the future. A truth a tell myself is that I'll probably never have enough money, but I won't run out of the desire to keep making it and watching my money grow
Needs Vs. Wants
We all work hard for our money, and there’s nothing wrong with enjoying it. A new truck. A vacation. Some toys. Whatever makes you happy. But here’s the question: Do you actually NEED it, or do you just WANT it? There’s a big difference between being able to make the payments and actually being able to afford something. Sometimes the smartest financial decision is simply waiting before pulling out your wallet. Financial discipline isn’t about denying yourself everything. It’s about making intentional decisions. FORGE ACCOUNTABILITY What’s one purchase you thought you needed, but looking back, could’ve easily lived without? Let’s hear it, gentlemen!
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This isn't much compared to some things but it's the first thing that comes to mind because it's a purchase that my son pointed out his thoughts to me. I bought a new pair of skates (used but in very good condition so they were still expensive) a couple seasons ago that would use strictly for working as a hockey referee. I already had a really good pair of skates that I liked, but I always like to be prepared if something breaks or goes wrong, as I live in a rural area so getting skates repaired and back in a timely matter can take time. So I found what what I thought was good deal on a high end model skate that I never even tried on and bought them. When they arrived I tried them on and I honestly thought they were terrible uncomfortable. But growing up in the 90's and being used to the skates back then, all skates today seem way too stiff to me. However I was destined to make these work. A few weeks later my son was home and showed them to him, he said "those are nice, but do you need them?" I told them what I paid for them vs what they are worth, and said they'd be a backup pair or I could rotate them and again he said "great, but....do you need them?" I learned a sudden lesson from my 19 year old son of how he was right, and I'd just spent money I didn't need to. Especially when they hurt my feet so much so much I have to continue to add gel pads to the ankles and tongue regularly just to make them tolerable. I only wore them a few times as the thought of reffing a game with painful skates isn't much motivation to wear them. My son was right, I really didn't need them, but got them anyway, and didn't even like them as much as I thought. So my example isn't necessarily a really expensive purchase, but it was definitely unnecessary, and now I think of that almost every time I buy anything
Build A Backup Plan
Life isn't always going to cooperate with your plans. You planned to hit the gym, but work ran late. You packed a healthy lunch, but forgot it on the counter. You planned to save $500 this month, but an unexpected bill showed up. Here's the difference between staying consistent and falling off track: Having a Plan B. Can't make the gym? Do 15 minutes at home. Forgot your lunch? Make the best choice available. Can't save $500? Maybe you can put away $25. Too busy to tackle your entire to-do list? Knock off one important task. Never Zero isn't about everything going according to plan. It's about refusing to let a change of plans become an excuse to do nothing. The men who make consistent progress aren't always the ones with the most discipline. They're often the ones who have prepared for things to go wrong. FORGE ACCOUNTABILITY What's one area of your life where you need a better backup plan? Drop your Plan A and Plan B below. Because when life throws you a curveball, you should already know your next move.
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Justin, this one might an extreme plan B (at least for me), one I'm almost afraid to think about. But I wonder sometimes what would happen if I had to start a new job, or a new career. To be perfectly clear...I've been with my company in the sand and gravel business for 20 years, and I love what I do. I've worked my way up to be a foreman of my own mining site and production plant location. I've built my lifestyle, and my future based on my job. But I always have thoughts in the back of my mind such as what if we get sold, what my location gets sold or closed and the company can't offer me another position nearby, or even worse what if I get injured for life and can't do my job??? I really don't have a backup plan. Sand and gravel mining jobs in my area aren't like coal mining towns where you can go from one to another to another, they are almost few and far between in reasonable geographic locations in my area. And around here you can't really inquire to another company or industry for reasons of a backup plan, you're either interested in a job with them or you're not, offers and positions don't last forever or until a time you feel is convenient for you. What do you do for something like this when you have a job, you're happy , and feel secure for the long term and think you don't need to have a backup plan? Any thoughts, anyone?
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Good thought Justin, I guess I didn't think about it that way. I guess most commonly on this situation where a person doesn't have a backup plan, they either go into panic mode and need to find a new job right now, or some take a day or 2 to "figure things out". I like the thought safety net which can give you some time to find the right job, not just a new job. Good input, thank you 👍
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