Brothers, too often we define ourselves by titles, roles, and responsibilities... husband, father, business owner, leader. These are noble and important, but they are not the core of who we are. For at least 2 decades I found my identity in my career. I'll say I thought I was doing the right thing... You know, providing for my family but what they really needed was more of me. Today’s journal prompt is designed to cut past all the noise and help you uncover your God-given identity: “If every title, role, and responsibility was stripped from me—no job, no bank account, no possessions, no status—who would remain? What values, beliefs, and truths about myself would still stand when everything else is gone?” Sit with this. Write it out honestly, even if the answers scare you or surprise you. For deeper reflection, you can also explore: - What are the moments in my life where I felt most fully alive and authentic? - Which lies about my worth or manhood have I accepted, and what truth counters them? - If I lived only from my God-given identity, how would my actions, words, and leadership look different? This isn’t about writing the “right” answer. It’s about chiseling away the stone until the man God forged you to be is revealed. 👉 Drop a comment below once you’ve done the exercise and share one insight or breakthrough. Your words may unlock something for another brother in the forge.

Brothers, I’m glad you’re here. This space was created for men who are ready to reclaim their God-given role as fathers and leaders, rooted in biblical truth and strengthened by brotherhood. Let’s start by getting to know each other. Share your story in the comments by including: - Your name: So we know who we’re locking arms with. - Where you’re from: It’s powerful to see how far this mission reaches. - How many children you have: Whether you’re a new dad, a seasoned father, or a spiritual father. - Something fun or unique about you: Because life isn’t just a battle, it’s also full of joy. This is your community. Jump in, share openly, and connect with the other men here. The more we show up, the stronger this brotherhood becomes. “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.” —1 Corinthians 16:13

This is something I have failed at for most of my life. I felt that if I just work harder, I can get to rest eventually. I can get to spending more time with my family eventually. Well, I can say that the world will take every minute we give it, we need to be intentional about the Sabbath. We need to be intentional about our time with God. This weekend I spent a lot of time with my wife and daughter and spending time in community with God. So grateful for this chapter of my life, even with all the challenges it has. Would love to know if you have ever practiced Sabbath? Vote below, then drop in the comments how you practice, or why you don't. No judgement, just curious.

There’s a reason you feel that pull toward community. It’s not weakness. It’s not neediness. It’s design. You were wired to walk with others. From the beginning of time, man was never meant to walk alone. Isolation isn’t just dangerous... it’s a battlefield. And the enemy loves nothing more than a lone warrior without a shield wall. Here in The Crucible Brotherhood, we reject the lie of self-made strength. We believe: 🔥 Iron sharpens iron... alone, we dull. 🔥 Brotherhood refines us... alone, we drift. 🔥 Challenge is necessary... but support is essential. You don’t have to prove anything here. You just have to show up. As you are. In progress. In process. This isn’t just a “group.” It’s a forge... a place where strength is tested, edges are honed, and character is shaped in the fire of authentic connection. If you’ve been feeling the weight of going it alone… Step in closer. Link shields. And remember this: 💬 Brotherhood isn’t a bonus in life... it’s a battlefield necessity. Let’s keep showing up. Together. —Rob 🔨

Hey everyone, I wanted to introduce myself and give an example for everyone on how we do this. 😀 - Rob Stein - Warren, Michigan with aspirations to sell my house, buy a camper and live on the road with my wife. - I have 4 children, Twin 21 year old sons, a 17 year old son, and a 16 year old daughter. - Something fun or unique about me? Well, One of my testimonials has been published in a #1 best selling book. :-) Can't wait to meet you all.