If I could only teach you one thing that you’ve learned at 100%. What would it be? What is the one thing you need to understand? What is the one thing you need to feel 100% capable of doing? What is the one thing, that (God forbid) if I never spoke again, you will have wanted me to teach you? Here's why I'm asking: Charlie Kirk's death hit me like a ton of bricks. Last year my brother passed away, and this assassination felt just as difficult for me. We share a profession We share a faith and briefly we shared a city. So it leaves me wondering - am I doing the work I need to be doing? What message would I be willing to leave my children motherless for? I have been wrestling with this since Wednesday. So I ask because I want to know - Have a done any good in the world today? And what do you need that I can give?

Here's what I have found as the measurements of mental health? 1. Resilience: How do you respond when there is negative stimulus? 2. Growth: Do you desire to grow or are you threatened by being wrong? 3. Connection: What are you giving back to your family or community? Therese are the hallmarks of mental health. How do you keep yourself healthy?

Neither did I. On the last hot seat call, I asked @Marianne Hickman what to write my next ebook about. I knew I wanted my audience to use it rather than sit in the dusty shelf called "files" on their phone. After a quick discussion, I committed to asking my audience. I went onto facebook, jumped into someone elses community, and asked in a poll "Which one of these would actually make your life easier?" I was amazed that opening this morning, I had 82 votes telling me what the next should be about to get the best reception from it. If you need your next ebook topic, try asking the people who you talk with. Maybe you find them in a facebook group, instagram hashtag, or skool community. Wherever it is, just try it. I did and I'm so glad I did. Now onward to creating the book!! P.S. Thanks to my accountability partner for keeping me accountable @Adam Parry

Happy Birthday @Willie Blake !!!!

@Dallas Griffiths and @Kimberly Morand just joined the community today!! Let's give them a Hive welcome!