If you're here, you're probably tired of running your life like everything is a five-alarm fire — and equally tired of being told to "just slow down" or "relax more". This community is about understanding your nervous system, questioning some of the bullshit we've learned about productivity and worth, and building a life you don't constantly need to recover from. And having a damn good time while we're at it. Because healing doesn't need to become another fucking job. START HERE 1. Watch the About video. It'll tell you why this place exists. 2. Head to the Classroom and watch the Brainspotting video. That's Tool #1. 3. Introduce yourself. Who are you, and what's one thing burnout or constantly being "the capable one" has cost you? THIS PLACE IS FOR YOU. I have ideas for how I want this community to run — Monday is this, Tuesday is that, topics, tools, conversations, all of it. But if it's not working for you guys, I want to know. Want more of something? Tell me. Something isn't landing? Tell me. There's something you want us to talk about? Tell me. Because what the fuck is the point if you're not getting anything out of it? I'm also planning a weekly LIVE session, likely Wednesday afternoons. There's a poll up for the days/times that work best for everyone, so go vote (by that, I mean just commenting below you preferences...). Lives will be recorded if you can't make it. I want those sessions to be less "Renae talks at you" and more actual conversation — questions, real-life shit, things you're working through, and whatever comes up around what we're talking about that week. THE GROUND RULES Don't be an asshole. Disagree, question things, have opinions. Just respect each other. What's said here stays here. No screenshots, sharing someone else's story, or turning their vulnerability into your content. Ask before coaching. Sometimes people want advice. Sometimes they just want to say, "Today fucking sucked." No unsolicited promos — including DMs. This is a community, not a promo fishing hole. Don't join conversations looking for clients or slide into members' DMs pitching your shit. If someone asks what you do? Cool. Otherwise, don't.