For me it’s uncomfortable because I’ve locked in my mind that no one is coming to save me. So I have to be the one to make whatever situation I get involved in work to my benefit. It almost feels like I’m failing when I have to ask. Support usually doesn’t come without an ulterior motive, but when it’s genuine it feels awkward as hell. I’m getting better at knowing who my support team is and who falls into other categories in my life. Support isn’t always financial and sometimes we give people what we think they need instead of asking how can I support you? How can I show up for you?