Hi everyone! I’m new to this community and wanted to introduce myself and my story! I am 21 years old and am currently in college. About a month ago, my relationship of 4 years ended. We were pretty codependent for most of our relationship, so I definitely lost my sense of self throughout. At the time, we lived together in a 2 bedroom apartment at school, but I recently moved out into a small house. Unfortunately I’m currently paying rent for both places since I was unable to find anyone to sublease. But as a good friend said, “You can’t heal where you were hurt”. I was blindsided, discarded, and without any closure, I was asked for no contact. It broke me to pieces and for the past month i’ve been slowly trying to put myself back together and find peace from within. I’ve been journaling, working out, meditating, and overall trying to become the best version of myself. I am eager to learn how to navigate relationships in this generation of dating. If anyone has had similar experiences, can relate, or has words of wisdom don’t be afraid to reach out!! I am excited to meet everyone!