I thought I should also get this in touch with my fellow human being like me cuz it really helps me so much of how I thought tho In this season of my life, I’VE LEARNED that DROPSHIPPING isn’t just a business model… it’s a lifestyle built on three things {FAITH, TIME, and FINANCE } ND how we as humans grow THROUGH DISCIPLINE ND DECISIONS. FAITH: Before the orders, before the wins, before the screenshots there was belief. Belief in myself, belief in the process, ND belief that my future could look better than my present. Without faith, you quit early. With faith, you keep pushing even when results are slow. TIME: Time is the only currency you can’t refund. I dedicated hours to testing creatives, researching winning products, studying ads, ND improving my systems. The growth didn’t happen overnight… but it did happen because I invested time intentionally. FINANCE: Money is a tool not the goal. I learned to reinvest wisely, spend strategically, ND build a process that makes my money work for me instead of the other way around. At the end of the day, we’re all human. WE DOUBT, WE FEAR, WE OVERTHINK… but we also have the POWER To RISE, LEARN, ND CREATE SOMETHING BIGGER THAN OURSELVES. My DROPSHIPPING journey taught me that SUCCESS doesn’t come from TALENT but from STAYING CONSISTENT when OTHERS SLOW DOWN. If you’re reading this, let this be your REMINDER THAT - YOU DON'T NEED TO HAVE EVERYTHING FIGURED OUT TO BEGIN. - YOU JUST NEED TO START, STAY HUMAN, AND STAY HUNGRY IN aspect of u should be ONLY HUNGRY FOR WHAT U WANT ND ALSO NOT JUST WHAT U WANT BUT FOR WHAT U DESIRE FOR.

I’VE LEARNED something on my DROPSHIPPING journey that fits perfectly with what THE PROVING GROUNDS is all about growth only comes when you put yourself in the arena. When I started, nothing was easy. Testing products felt like guessing. My first ads flopped. My store wasn’t perfect. And honestly… there were days I questioned if I was even built for this. But that’s exactly why I call dropshipping my personal proving ground. Every challenge forced me to level up: 👉 When an ad didn’t work, I learned. 👉 When a supplier messed up, I adapted. 👉 When I felt stuck, I rebuilt my strategy. 👉 When I wanted to quit, I kept pushing anyway. In The Proving Grounds, we talk a lot about pressure, challenge, and grit and I feel that in this business every single day. It’s not about being perfect… it’s about showing up, taking hits, and coming back smarter. VDROPSHIPPING TAUGHT ME ⚔️ Discomfort is part of progress ⚔️ Failure is data, not defeat ⚔️ Consistency beats talent ⚔️ The person you become matters more than the store you build I’m still learning, still growing, still adapting but that’s the whole point of being here. So if you’re in the middle of your own TESTING PHASE just know you’re in the right place. Every step you take is sharpening you. We don’t run from the challenge. We embrace it. what The Proving Grounds is for.

If there’s one thing I’ve realized, it’s that life will test you before it rewards you. And for me, Shopify dropshipping became my personal proving ground. - When I started, nothing came easy. - Products failed. Ads flopped. - I doubted myself more times than I can count. But every challenge forced me to toughen up, think deeper, and move smarter. Over time, I saw that the real win wasn’t just in making sales… It was in who I was becoming through the process. - Dropshipping taught me resilience. - It taught me patience. - It taught me how to stay calm under pressure and how to keep going when most people quit. This journey showed me that you don’t grow when things are comfortable you grow when the ground beneath you forces you to stand stronger. Every day I show up, I remind myself👇👇 THIS IS THE PROVING GROUND. AND I'M HERE TO GET BETTER, NOT BITTER. STILL PUSHING. STILL LEARNING. STILL PROVING MYSELF WITH EVERY STEP.

I spent years trying to engineer the "perfect" holiday memory. I usually ended up ruining the actual moment. I remember standing in the living room one year, sweating in a wool sweater that scratched like crazy. We were trying to take the "perfect" family Christmas card photo. The baby was crying, the dog was chewing the wrapping paper, and my wife was stressed out of her mind. And there I was, barking orders like a drill sergeant. "Just sit still! Smile! Look happy!" I was so focused on capturing the image of a happy family that I was making my actual family miserable. I wasn't present; I was performing. And the tension in the room was thick enough to choke on. I realized that day that I was trading connection for perfection. A perfect photo of a miserable family isn't a win. It’s a lie. The "good enough" holiday isn't about being lazy. It's about choosing presence over performance. My kids won't remember if the gingerbread house looked like a masterpiece or a disaster. They will remember if Dad was laughing with them or yelling at them about the frosting. We are here to be memory-makers, not stage directors. The men in this brotherhood know that the real magic happens in the messy, unplanned moments. 1. Where are you suffocating the joy in your home by demanding perfection right now? 2. What is one thing you can let be "messy" this week so you can actually enjoy your family? Your action today: Pick one "perfect" expectation you have for this month (the card, the meal, the decorations). Intentionally lower the bar. Choose to laugh at the chaos instead of fixing it.

I used to start my son's day by yelling at him. The clock would hit 7:15 AM, and he’d still be in his pajamas, moving like molasses. I could feel the heat rising in my chest. The pressure of running late took over, and I’d snap. I’d yell about breakfast. I’d yell about him not being dressed. And then I’d spend the whole drive to school feeling like garbage because I sent my boy into his day with my anger. A couple of months ago, on that drive to school, I realized something had to change. I told him, "It is my responsibility to help hold you capable and support you, not just get mad when you struggle." That night, instead of lecturing him, we sat down and made a checklist together. Now, he uses that checklist every single morning. I don't have to be the "yelling dad" anymore. I just guide him through the steps he helped create. I learned that peace in the home doesn't happen by accident. It happens when we lead. My son didn't need my frustration; he needed a tool. When I shifted from demanding results to supporting the process, the friction disappeared. Being a Peacemaker Dad isn't about being soft. It's about building the structure your family needs to succeed so you can stop fighting and start connecting. 1. Where is there constant friction in your house because you haven't provided a clear tool or system? 2. What is one simple checklist you can build with your child tonight to solve a recurring problem? Your action today: Pick the most stressful time of your day (morning, bedtime, etc.). Sit down with your family and write out the 3-5 steps needed to win that moment.