So ...... I'm learning that forgiveness isn't about the other person nor is it truly FOR the other person but in fact true forgiveness is FOR YOU!! Stop poisoning yourself with UNFORGIVENESS hoping that what you've ingested will hurt them!!!! YOU'RE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF! Unforgiveness is a silent deadly poison disguised as control and self preservation but really the most EFFECTIVE WEAPON OF THE ENEMY!!! FREE YOURSELF!! LET IT GO *speaking to myself*

*Please Read* As God renews your mind & heals your heart, your flesh resists change, and the enemy opposes freedom. Don’t allow the enemy’s “Temper Tantrum” to distract you or take your focus away from your healing!! It’s actually evidence that you’re no longer where you used to be🙌🏾. The enemy recognizes that you’re no longer agreeing with his lies, no longer partnering with your wounds, and no longer remaining in bondage!! So here comes his temper tantrum🤨. Now you’re: - Getting migraines - Can’t stay awake - Don’t feel well - Familiar people & things are resurfacing - Work is acting funny - Money is funny - Arguments & Disagreements are happening… Here’s the thing, the enemy knows he can’t take away what Christ has already purchased for you, so he attempts to distract you, discourage you, or convince you to quit. That resistance may look like discouragement, distraction, temptation, fear, condemnation, or even an unusual desire to avoid prayer or God’s Word! So don’t be surprised when resistance increases as you pursue your healing. Remember this principle: Resistance doesn’t always mean you’re under attack, it often means you’re moving forward. The flesh resists dying and the enemy resists freedom, but neither can stop a believer who continues to submit to God and walk in obedience. So if you’ve noticed more resistance since beginning this healing journey, don’t panic, don’t quit, and don’t assume you’re going backward. Keep praying. Keep reading. Keep renewing your mind. Keep showing up. The enemy may throw a temper tantrum…but he doesn’t get the final say. “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” — James 4:7 Paula🌹 🙏🏾Read my prayer for you in the comments🙏🏾

Colossians 3:13: "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."

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Starting a thread of our special day! The day we said I do!!! Another reminder to let the enemy know WE'RE NOT GIVING UP! WE'RE FIGHTING FOR OUR MARRIAGES!!!